1, be kind.

2. The tone is deep.

3. Pay attention to polite language.

4. Make clear the events you want to reflect on, then explain the reasons, and finally emphasize that you have realized your mistakes and promised to correct them and urge your children.

Ex: After attending this parent-teacher conference, I thought a lot. In the mid-term exam, the child's grades were not satisfactory. There are both children's own reasons and many places worthy of parents' reflection.

First of all, children are not guided to develop good study habits. It is said that 2 1 day can initially form a good habit. But as a parent, I didn't insist very well. Children's homework is not written neatly, and the calculation accuracy is not high. I once made up my mind to help him correct it, but every time I didn't stick to it for long, I relaxed my requirements.

So until now, children have not got rid of the above two problems. Because of a calculation error, I lost nearly twenty points in the mid-term math exam. It is urgent to improve the calculation accuracy.

Secondly, there is not enough patience and improper methods in educating children. Take writing as an example. Want to write well, not overnight. Parents should encourage their children's handwriting to improve slightly. However, I always deny or even blame it because it has not reached my expected level. So that children lose confidence in writing good words.

Children need encouragement, especially XXX. They are not particularly confident and need encouragement from their parents. But I always criticize more than encourage. In the future, I will pay more attention to children's strengths, strengths and small progress, encourage them in time and appreciate them more.

Fan Wen:

Dear teacher: Hello!

I am xxx's parents. First of all, I am very grateful to the teacher for his careful teaching and let him know more about his study and life. Although he made some minor mistakes more or less in the past days, he can actively correct his mistakes through the teacher's education.

It is said that the teacher is the child's second mentor, because children spend most of their time in school because of educational needs. Many times, teachers can notice what boring problems children have in time, and then give correct guidance in time. This is in line with the fact that as parents, we are more effective in the development of children's education and make up for the shortcomings of our parents in children's education.

Therefore, as a parent, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to my teacher.

Of course, I also understand that if there are many problems in children's education and development, it will be difficult for our parents to get rid of them. Because we are often busy with work, we can't spare too much time to know the situation of our children in time, and I believe the teacher can understand.

But I have always been very concerned about xxx's study, and his study has always been excellent, which also makes me feel deeply self-satisfied

In the days to come, I will actively cooperate with the teacher's work and jointly improve his academic performance.

At home, I will create a good family learning environment for my child and have an independent and quiet learning place to ensure his learning needs.

Of course, I know that it is very important for children to urge and encourage more in their studies, so I will always encourage him and cultivate his awareness of learning after urging and encouraging.

Finally, I sincerely hope that the teacher will pay more attention to it, which will be more beneficial to his study.