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On true love education
Judging from the performance of this mother, it seems that she attaches great importance to the scientific training of her children ... It is inevitable that her children will fall and get injured. At this time, parents should encourage him to stand up by himself! Tell him to get up from where he fell. Then you will feel the pain and avoid the next fall! This can play a great role in children's future growth. Parents can't stay with their children all their lives, protect them and take care of them. Children have to stand on their own feet in the end. Parents should not spoil their children just because they are young. That will only make children dependent on their parents in the future. Today's families are all only children, because they have enjoyed the love of at least six adults since childhood, so that there are now neets and some rich second generations on the Internet. Parents should understand the heavy pressure of modern society and the hardships and cruelty of life. Therefore, standing children need to stand on their own feet. These should have been instilled in him when he was a child. At this time, they have just come into contact with the world, and it is still a blank sheet of paper. We need to mark his future plans on white paper first, so that they have such an impression. You can be independent in the future. It's not important to fall, what's important is to let him know the pain of falling, how to get up, and how to avoid falling again after getting up! Never hold him in your arms and protect him because of a temporary love. What if you weren't there when the child fell? Is he going to lie on the ground all his life? If parents love their children, they can't miss any opportunity to educate and inspire them. But the little things in real life can better reflect the purpose of education. Can let him exercise perseverance. Love him and encourage him to face every challenge in life. People's potential is infinite, and they can only be tapped when they are most helpless! Therefore, love can't be spoiled. Parents must guide him how to overcome physical pain and face difficulties when he is young! Instead of helping him escape. Never know what pain is like! Only when you know the pain will you think about how to reduce it. Everyone is like this. Parents began to train him like this when he didn't understand, and gave him practical exercise! Gradually let him form a strong and unyielding character! On the contrary, he was protected by his parents since childhood. If he leaves his parents, he can't bear the pain and blow! He will be hit by a little difficulty! I can't get up ... Parents' love can be expressed in many ways, but children must be cultivated and encouraged from an early age! True love is not doting, but the education of children should be targeted! True love should not be afraid of children being hurt, but let them experience the pain of failure from an early age! I haven't encountered the same problem since I stood up. ...