Nowadays, many children are the treasures of the family and the hearts of their parents. However, please remember that parents should not spoil, spoil and cover up their weaknesses, especially in front of everyone, which will inflate their children's vanity and distort their views on right and wrong in serious cases. Export is export, and criticism is education.
2. Elders and parents should not disagree on the issue of educating their children.
Never let elders say this, and parents say that. You can only choose one. If the coordination cannot be achieved, it is suggested that the parents and elders of the children have been separated, or that the elders should not interfere in the education of the children. Remember, taking care of children may be the responsibility of elders, but educating children is the responsibility of parents. In fact, supporting and recognizing the educational methods of children's parents is also a kind of respect for their parents.
3. Let the children suffer.
Let children learn to eat a little bitter, suffer a little difficulties and setbacks, and make children stronger and braver. Boldly let the children lose at the starting line, and don't let the children fight for everything.
4. Let children do more things.
Children do their own things, let him learn to do what he can, help the family do more housework, and let the children know their responsibilities and burdens earlier.
5. Let children learn to be human and learn to do things.
Let children learn to deal with things between children and let them know the principles of some things.
6. Don't give your child too much pocket money, and don't meet all the requirements of your child.
Don't give children too much money, and don't satisfy their extravagant consumption. Don't satisfy children's wishes and demands.
7. Know your children's friends.
Pay attention to which children the children play with and what their friends are like. To know the children's friends, parents can also know the children from their mouths.
8. Contact teachers and schools in time.
Children's education needs the joint management of parents, schools and teachers. Therefore, parents should communicate with their children's teachers in time.
9. Spend more time with your children to make them feel safe and belong.
If parents are free, spend more time with their children and let them find more sense of security and belonging. Such children are generally not a big problem.
10, home and everything.
This is an old saying, which is really reasonable and also applies to children's education. Only when parents are good can children be good. If the family is good, so will the children. Therefore, for children who are difficult to teach and manage, try to make family relationships better!