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Children are a little arrogant. How to guide and educate arrogant children?
1. Educate children to be open-minded and eager to learn. During the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius was honored as a "saint". He has two thousand disciples, and everyone asks him for knowledge. His Analects of Confucius has been handed down from generation to generation for thousands of years. But Confucius still humbly asked others for advice. On one occasion, he went to the ancestral temple to worship his ancestors. As soon as I entered the ancestral temple, I felt strange. There were still many things I didn't know, so I asked others questions. Someone laughed: "Confucius has outstanding knowledge, so why ask?" Confucius said, "Always ask questions. What's wrong? " His disciples asked him, "Why did you call Kong Wen Zi after Kong died?" Confucius said, "You are smart and eager to learn, and you are not ashamed to ask questions. It is worthy of being a writer." Disciple thought: "Teachers often ask others for advice, and they are not ashamed!" " Being open-minded and eager to learn from everyone, including those who are lower than themselves and those who have less knowledge than themselves, is called "not ashamed to ask questions". So parents should help their children form this good habit.

2. Encourage children to study hard. In the Western Han Dynasty, Zhu Maichen lost his father in his early years and made a living by selling firewood. However, others are not bad. He is ambitious and determined to study hard and do things for the people. His wife left Zhu Maichen because of her poor family and her "bad habit" of studying. Zhu Maichen was not discouraged. On the contrary, he concentrated more on his studies. Because of his extensive knowledge, during the reign of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, he was worshipped as a Chinese medicine practitioner, and later served as a magistrate of Huiji and a prime minister for a long time. During the lawsuit, he was honest and had a great reputation.

The times are advancing, and people who live in them, such as sailing against the current, will retreat if they don't advance. Modest people will work hard and be diligent.