Starting from the babbling of children, round babies are toddlers, and parents begin to educate their children. As children grow up, they begin to be curious and understand things around them. One flower and one grass, one person and one thing, one thing and one reason, all need to be taught by parents. Perhaps at this stage, many people lack the definition of education, or just think that this is a natural development and there is no need to deliberately educate children. They also think that children are too young, talk too much and teach too much, which makes it difficult for children to learn. When the children are older, they will go to kindergarten, primary and secondary schools and junior high schools. Of course, colleges and teachers will carry out professional and systematic education.
If parents have such a concept of education, it is all wet. It is also an incorrect distortion of early childhood education, an important part of children's development education. Naturally, early childhood education is also known as the ancients' "mysterious heaven and earth, vast universe." The sun and the moon are full, and Chen Su is on the list. "Such a vulgar dogmatic recitation.
I think the education of children in childhood (before entering primary school) is a very critical and unique stage. At this time, children's thinking is not full-time, and they are at the critical stage of language expression, personal behavior, things and truth learning. The most important way for children to learn is to imitate their parents' words and deeds and understand uncertainty. Therefore, many parents also understand the necessity of taking responsibility at this stage.
In the learning stage of children aged 2-6, the key task of daily learning is not the talent display of China's Chinese characters, mathematics and ancient poems, but more importantly, the parents' shaping of their children's excellent personality and character. The beginning of life, three-character classics, good in nature, similar in nature, far from learning. At the beginning of San Zi Jing, the difference between children's growth and conclusion is revealed. In other words, giving children a different living environment will basically give them a precise positioning of their future life path. Nature will not remove the hidden dangers of unpredictable current events.
In children's enlightenment education, besides teaching children to speak properly and understand things, learning some commonly used and easy-to-understand China Chinese characters or other opinions, the more important stage is to educate children's conduct and form habits. Good conduct is the foundation of a child's life, and knowledge is the perfect jade. Character education is not only criticism, but also learning, understanding and constant adjustment in children's daily life. It is a long and continuous piecemeal education. Parents spend a year or two or more to develop good habits of food, clothing, housing, transportation and study, and get the habits and self-discipline that children will benefit from all their lives, which will have a multiplier effect on future education.
Character education, habit formation and professional knowledge learning relative to children's age basically constitute parents' early childhood education, which is the post responsibility and responsibility that upright parents should guarantee for their children.
Combined with their own personal experience, it is really necessary for parents to find blank areas anytime and anywhere in their children's education, use a lot of fragmented time flexibly, and shape good conduct, daily life and study habits more reasonably. Children's education can naturally get a good conclusion without moving desks and chairs. On the other hand, crude criticism and non-mechanical adaptation are parents' ignorance. It is not a parenting book that can teach all children in the world, nor is it the work experience of others to educate quiet girls, so it can be put on your own smelly boy. Therefore, parents must first learn, digest and absorb the professional knowledge of today's parenting books, and make tailor-made adjustments and their own beneficial supplements, so as to obtain the most suitable educational methods for themselves and their children.
There are too many practical methods, and each child's temperament is different, and the applicable methods are different. This requires parents to carefully and diligently choose appropriate education and learning methods for themselves and their children. It is the responsibility of every parent to lay a good foundation for children's good conduct and basic knowledge, to provide sufficient energy reserves for children's future primary school life, and to ensure the successful operation of children's life path learning.
In addition, the parent-child early education mentioned by social development education institutions only causes and induces the level of professional knowledge. Although there are no places, this is not all the education that children must have. Therefore, parents can't give all their children's education to others, they must do everything by themselves, and first shape themselves into a suitable parent according to their previous study.
When sharpening a knife, you don't miss the woodcutter, and the worker wants to do it well. Are you willing to miss and give up your child's first mentor and parents? May parents abide by the four major accountants, and may children study hard and grow up healthily and happily.