First, the daughter-in-law can do whatever she wants. Although the daughter-in-law doesn't cook, brush pots and wash dishes, but people work during the day and come home after a busy day, is there a problem with not cooking, washing pots and washing dishes? On the surface, everyone is playing mobile phones. Will they reply to work information?
Don't just look at the superficial phenomenon, pay more attention to the efforts behind the daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law became a family with her mother-in-law because she loved her husband. As long as her husband likes it, her husband likes it, and her husband is tolerant, what is her dissatisfaction with being a mother-in-law?
My son can go to work during the day and go home at night, so why can't my wife lie down? A mother-in-law cannot be so selfish.
Second, it is normal for young people to live independently. It is normal for old people not to like the life of young people, but don't be prejudiced against their daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law can do without being a son. Imagine if the daughter-in-law is her own daughter, are there so many complaints?
If you don't like the life of young people, leave them and live your old life independently. If you don't want to leave your son, please tolerate everything about your daughter-in-law.
The son and daughter-in-law are married, married. They should have the space and opportunity to live independently. They should not live with their elders, let alone let them get involved in their marriage.
An elder should consciously leave the marriage life of his son and daughter-in-law. You can help them when they are in trouble, but you can't tell them what to do in their lives by virtue of your elder status.
Finally, a mother-in-law should never let her daughter-in-law be her own daughter-in-law. Pay more attention to young people around her. Some of them cook, wash pots and pans and clean, and some of them can do what their mother-in-law did when she was young.
Don't provoke the feelings of your son and daughter-in-law as a mother-in-law. It is your son who will suffer in the end.