Many parents understand that accompanying their children is only companionship, not companionship. For children's birthdays, spend some money to take them to the children's playground. Instead, I sat aside and started playing with my mobile phone, chatting with other parents, taking pictures of my children and making friends, and occasionally seeing if I was injured or fighting with other children. When the child gets his beloved toy and interacts with you happily, you just need to look up and say, "The baby is really amazing, go and play by yourself!" " When you see children fighting for toys with other children, go up and stop them and teach them a lesson. For their birthday memories, the happy part is not you, but the part with you is just scolding him. Is this kind of "companionship" really the companionship of children?

Many times children can play by themselves or with friends, so it doesn't matter if you say that you are busy with work and have no time, but pay attention to it. When you finally have time to spend with your children, please do it wholeheartedly! So, how can we do it?

Parent-child play is the best way to accompany with high quality. Children should play more games they like with him. Don't think children's things are too childish. After all, there is no better way to successfully play with children than to turn yourself into a child. Even if you can see it at a glance when playing hide-and-seek, don't expose the child's elaborate disguise and keep the game interesting. Children will enjoy it more if they feel that their parents are really teasing themselves rather than perfunctory. For mom, taking a bath before going to bed every day is a hurry, not a game to play, but for most children, taking a bath may be the game he most looks forward to and doesn't want to miss, so the next time you take a bath with your child, you may wish to make your child clean and happy half an hour in advance.

Besides playing some parent-child games, there are many small details to be done in life. A greeting when you get home, tell a story to your child before going to bed every day, and talk to your child about what happened in the day. Some problem children may be easier to see than adults, but many things may be solved by simple practices in your child's mouth.

Being with children is not staring at them. Accompanying should not affect children's independence and freedom. If companionship becomes a kind of monitoring, what a child wants is not a parent who keeps staring at him. Wise parents should know that the right companionship is an invisible line, which can make children feel their parents' love without giving him too much oppression.