2. Reasoning with children In addition to the usual warnings, parents should also teach their children some truth in actual situations. Let the child have empathy, let him stand in the perspective of others and truly understand how his actions will affect others. As for the way of reasoning, the depth of explanation can be chosen according to the age of children, especially children can tell stories.
3. Let children experience that if children can't always listen to adults, parents can also let their children "eat their own fruit" on the premise of ensuring safety and no adverse consequences. Through their own practical experience, children will be able to deeply understand how correct and important their parents' teaching is.
4. negotiate with your child. Don't always ask children to live according to the wishes of adults. Then not only children are suffering, but also adults are suffering. Children are human beings, and of course they have their own things to do. Therefore, it may be a good idea to negotiate with your child and take a step back. For example, if the child wants to jump on the sofa, but the parents have something to consider, they can let the child jump on the bed in the bedroom, or let him jump later, or try to take the child to the park to jump after the parents have handled the matter.
When you are angry, of course, parents can't discipline their children in a rational way, no matter how angry they are. Therefore, when parents can't calm down anyway, Mr. Cheng suggested that parents leave the scene temporarily, or divert their attention to other things, such as calling friends to chat and listening to music. When you calm down, talk to your children.