Is it bad for children to be too indulgent or too authoritative in front of them? It is difficult for many parents to grasp the limits of educating their children. In the whole process, parents often have outspoken methods. When you encounter problems, you always have to go to this right and wrong, or let the children make mistakes when developing trends. This is not a good thing for children.

Recently, two young couples are always quarreling about their children. After having children, the number of quarrels in one month has reached the number of quarrels in the previous year. Recently, the child has a problem with picky eaters, so he quarreled with his husband again. Sometimes he has been carefully persuading his children to eat more vegetables, but he didn't expect that her husband was always defending his children. Bian Xiao was very angry, especially when he saw that he was taking care of the children recently. I still remember that my husband not only did not help, but also took care of them.

In the whole process of educating children, there are inevitably differences in educational concepts between husband and wife. When two different educational concepts collide, if they are effectively solved, there will probably be a stronger way to solve parenting education. However, if two people are right after all, it is likely that there will be disputes in front of the children, which will also endanger their mentality, which is also the greatest harm to the children.

If parents have been arguing about educating their children in front of them, they will gradually feel that they are the ones who are pushing their parents to despise the theory of relativity, which will also cause helplessness. When adults educate children, I think the most taboo is to preach and teach each other in front of children.

Nowadays, most children are very smart, especially when they look at their parents' faces. They know better which side is harsh and which side is very easy to please, so they are likely to look for something when they think their mother doesn't agree. If their father doesn't agree, they will go to their mother. Children who cultivate this habitual future will be particularly arrogant.

At that time, it was particularly difficult to educate children, and couples should closely combine different ideas about educating children. Only with good educational methods can children grow up healthily. Children who are too authoritative or too presumptuous in front of children are actually not good for children.