How to educate a growing child?
1. Respect children and know how to listen.
In the education of adolescent girls, parents need to be more careful and patient, and parents should pay attention to giving their children equal right to speak. Learn to listen to children's ideas patiently, so that children can feel respect for their own ideas and personality, so as to communicate better and avoid excessive rebellious psychology.
2. Don't scold children
When a child has a strong emotional reaction or even a fierce verbal conflict, the family must not scold the child to avoid intensifying the conflict. Parents should take temporary cold protection measures. Wait for the child to calm down, find out the crux of the problem, and then carry out appropriate persuasion and education.
3. Give children their own space
Children at this stage are in a state of ignorance. They are eager to have their own small space. If her behavior is not excessive, parents are advised to tighten their integration with her, giving priority to enlightenment and supplemented by reason. Give her her own private space, don't talk too much with her, treat her as a friend to gain a good impression and let her listen to her family.
4. Know how to communicate effectively
Girls' emotions are delicate and rich. Parents should seriously guide. Respond positively to children's opinions and ideas after communication. We should also take euphemistic criticism of the bad aspects and try to avoid excessive words and arbitrary behaviors that hurt children's self-esteem. Say the advantages first, then the disadvantages, and then put forward suggestions for correction to make it easier for children to accept.
5. Teach children how to manage their emotions.
Parents should teach them how to guide their emotions, express their ideas more and encourage them to solve problems in a rational way. Respect children's personality development, do not belittle, do not complain. In the long run, children will understand what their parents have done, and then put away their rebellious character and grow up in the way you expect.