This kind of love, different parents and different families bring different education to children.
"Love" is the source of education. From birth to growth, parents give their children all their love. On the premise of love, some parents will only give love or treat their children as their personal belongings, and will not teach their children how to love others. How to communicate with people?
Some parents love their children, but at the same time, they slowly teach their children to take on certain responsibilities.
Parents are children's first teachers, followed by teachers and society.
Example 1: This is how giant babies are cultivated.
My neighbor has a couple who have been married for many years and have no children. Later, they went to be test-tube babies and gave birth to a son. The couple took good care of their children and devoted all their love to them. It can be said that the child is the little emperor at home, afraid of falling into his hand and putting it in his mouth. When the son shouts to buy something, he tries to satisfy the child. He is never willing to say "no" to his children, nor is he willing to have any grievances, nor is he willing to let his children do something within their power. Other children began to learn to eat by themselves at the age of three. Their parents fed their children a mouthful of rice and soup when they were five years old.
Five-year-old children go to kindergarten, and five-year-old children in kindergarten belong to the age of large classes. So he jumped straight to the big class. On the first day of school, parents helped send their children to kindergarten with their schoolbags. At the entrance of the kindergarten, the teacher gave the child a morning check-up at the door and said to the child's mother, you just let the child carry a schoolbag and go in, and parents don't have to go in. The mother threw the schoolbag directly to the teacher and said to the teacher, "The schoolbag is too heavy, please help him take it in." The teacher has no choice but to finish the schoolbag. After all, on the first day of kindergarten, we will communicate later.
However, after children enter kindergarten, they can't eat, drink, wear shoes, queue up and tidy up their schoolbags. Still skipping, the teacher doesn't listen to anything, everything depends on his temper, and he has no good behavior habits at all. At the end of the day, the teacher was very tired. When the mother came to pick up the child in the afternoon, the teacher gave her feedback on the situation of the child in kindergarten. Mom said: nothing, the child was still young, so the teacher hid and took care of it, and then took the child away.
In the next few days, the teacher couldn't communicate well with the parents, so he had to persuade the children to leave.
This is a real case. After the child was dismissed, his parents still spoiled him. He went to primary school at the age of seven. Every time it's his turn to be on duty, his mother goes to school to help clean up. No matter what others say, she won't listen. She has developed the child into a "giant baby". We are all worried about the future of our children.
Ex. 2: Give half of your own things to others.
I believe many people have heard this story.
From 1998 65438+ 10/8 to 2 1, 75 Nobel Prize winners gathered in Paris. During the dinner, someone asked one of them, "What did you learn in which university is the most important?"
Surprisingly, the white-haired old man replied, "In kindergarten!"
"What did you learn in kindergarten?" "
The old man replied, "give half of your things to your friends." It's not that you don't take your own things. You must put them back. You must apologize for doing something wrong. In the afternoon, you should rest and observe nature carefully. That's all I learned. "
It can be seen from this story that a child's good behavior habits should be cultivated from an early age. People often say that you are old at the age of three and old at the age of seven. What kind of person a child can become and what kind of life he will lead in the future often has a lot to do with his childhood. In early childhood, parents' education is very important.
China's education sometimes pays too much attention to children's academic performance, but ignores children's moral and psychological education.
Education is of far-reaching significance. I hope everyone can make good use of that "ruler" and let it take root and sprout in children's psychology from an early age.
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