1 Pay attention to children's daily reading? Buy some excellent reading materials for children that are really conducive to their growth. The most shocking event in recent days is the frequent explosion of children's books, even textbooks. Illustrations and notes that are completely unsuitable for children have openly entered the book and become bestsellers, which really makes people shudder. In addition to anger, it also sounded the alarm for parents. Don't blindly follow the trend and buy these books and throw them to the children themselves. This is a big mistake. It is necessary to read it from an adult's perspective in advance in order to give it to children with confidence.
It is necessary for minors to pay attention to their children's friends, especially in the budding and rebellious period of adolescence. Children's cognition has not yet formed, and it is easy to be led astray by people around them. At this time, it is necessary to educate children how to distinguish a person's personality in daily life and persuade them to be cautious in making friends.
What impressed me most was that when I was a child, my best friend liked to steal things and often encouraged me to go with him. I hesitated for a long time because I was timid. My parents see that I have a lot of worries every day. When asked, I said so, and my parents told me sternly that it was wrong. At the suggestion of my parents, I broke up with my little friend. I'm glad I made this decision when I was a child. It is said that he and an accomplice were brought to justice not long ago. It can be seen that teaching children how to make friends is also an important lesson in cultivating self-protection awareness.
3 safety education Give your child a phone watch or other equipment that can be used for talking. Teaching children how to call the emergency number, how to explain their own situation and basic information, what kind of situation is an emergency, who can't easily believe it, what kind of behavior in daily life is likely to cause danger, and how to protect their own safety in crowded public places ..... These are the basic lessons that should be given to children. Safety education cannot be too much. Don't regret after the tragic event. At that time, it will be too late.
4 Pay attention to children's mental health. Children's depression is very common, and mental health is an aspect that many parents easily ignore. Children are still young, and many things cannot be self-consistent. In addition, Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory shows that parents should communicate with their children more and pay more attention to their needs, so as to ensure their physical and mental health.
5 sex education? It is very important to give children the necessary sex education. Secrecy will only give the bad guys a chance. Tell your children this knowledge generously and tell them how to protect themselves. This is what wise parents should do.
For novice parents who are confused about educating their children, it is suggested to learn more about pedagogy and educational psychology, which will make all kinds of educational problems suddenly clear.