Experience 1. Our parents should be children's good friends. In life, only when children have friends can parents really know what their children are thinking. We sometimes talk to our children in a commanding tone and tell them what to do, but we don't feel good afterwards. Since the child is our friend, we can't let him do everything according to our ideas, but ask their opinions, make him feel that you are his trustworthy friend and tell you his thoughts.
Experience two. A good family atmosphere is very important for the healthy growth of children. In front of the children, my husband and wife try to fight as little as possible. When one side criticizes a child, the other side can't point it out immediately in front of the child even if it doesn't agree, but two people discuss it privately. It is a child's nature to be playful, but everything should be measured. Too much fun will affect children's study. If it is not guided in time, it will have a negative impact on children's learning. Usually, in addition to urging children to finish the homework assigned by the teacher on time with good quality and quantity, I also intend to let children read some extracurricular books in moderation, and I will also change some books for him at my friend's house. Moreover, it is stipulated that only by completing the task can she arrange her own time freely and cultivate good study and living habits.
Experience three. Today's children's comprehension and understanding ability is much stronger than when we were young. To teach children, your respect for others can win others' respect for you. Sometimes we don't have to yell at them, they already know what they are doing is right or wrong. Especially when there are many people, we should be careful to protect their small self-esteem, because they already know that it is embarrassing to be scolded in front of others. If we still do this, we may hurt him. In fact, we can take him aside and discuss his behavior just now. He may think that you have given him enough face, and try not to let similar things happen in the future. That may get twice the result with half the effort.
Experience 4. Correctly train children to face setbacks, which are inevitable in one's life. Suffering is a great wealth of life. Misfortune and frustration can make people sink, and can also cast a strong will and achieve a full life. Suffering is a good teacher in life. He can teach children to be grateful, treat all problems with a positive attitude and bravely participate in social competition. .
Experience 5. Praise is the best way to shape a good character. The deepest desire of human nature is to gain the appreciation of others, and children are no exception. Parents' praise will arouse children's inner self-worth and dignity, and urge them to further strengthen good behavior until they develop a good character.
Let me also talk about my own educational failure: I didn't do well in making my child's hands-on ability, and I helped him in many things. I should let my child do more things that she can, and cultivate her hands-on ability and good habits of hard work and conscious labor.
In fact, education is a complex project, and it is not static. As children grow up, we should also make appropriate adjustments and educate them together, which is also the greatest wish of all our parents, including teachers.