Sincere dialogue
Establish a sincere dialogue with children, so that children can feel your concern and understanding. By listening to children, you can better understand their needs and ideas.
Clear rules
Make clear family rules for children and let them know what is allowed and why not. The formulation of rules needs to consider the age and personality characteristics of children, so that children can understand and accept them.
Praise and encouragement
Praise children's good performance in time to stimulate their self-confidence and enthusiasm. The ways of praise can be diversified, such as verbal praise, writing letters, rewards, etc.
Instill a sense of responsibility
Give children certain responsibilities, let them learn to take responsibility and cultivate self-discipline habits. The cultivation of sense of responsibility needs to start from small things, such as cleaning the room and taking care of pets.
Respect individuality
Give children some independent space and improve their independence and self-management ability. Respect children's personality and let them freely express their thoughts and feelings.
Broaden the social circle
Encourage children to participate in social activities and establish good interpersonal relationships and cooperation spirit. Social ways can be diversified, such as attending interest classes and joining clubs.
Professional assistance
If the child's rebellious behavior is serious or lasts for a long time, seek professional psychological counseling or educational counseling. Professional help can help children solve problems better and relieve family pressure.