1, respect the individual differences of children. Children's cognitive abilities are different and cannot be treated equally. Usually pay more attention to discovering the advantages of children, praise them in time, and help children build confidence.
2. Cultivate children's independence. Although the child is psychologically immature, he has his own ideas, and parents should take advantage of the situation. Try to let the children decide something. The tradition in China is "loving mother strict father". Parents are autocratic and generally do not consider their children's feelings. Parents in China always hope that their children can achieve their unfulfilled goals, while parents abroad always help their children realize their dreams.
3. Cultivate children's sense of participation. The child is a member of the family, and he wants to prove himself through his own labor. Parents can't strangle their children's psychology. They should be encouraged to help clean the dining table and tidy up the schoolbags. However, some parents worry that their children can't do well, or are afraid of their children's intervention, so they go their own way and gradually develop to decide everything by themselves, regardless of their opinions and suggestions, which eventually leads to their children losing their independence and dependence.