2. Be compassionate and help others. Not everyone is born to help others. Some people refuse to help others because they are too much trouble. No one helped me when I needed help. When a simple and kind child will treat everyone fairly, when others encounter difficulties, they will try their best to think about how painful others are at this time, so they want to give their energy to help others out of trouble.
3. Know how to think of others. The key to thinking of others is to pay attention to one person and be kind. This kind of attention is not only behavioral respect, but also spiritual attention. They will also understand other people's inner thoughts, feel other people's feelings and know how to put themselves in other people's shoes. This kind of children can better integrate into the differences in the surrounding environment, because we have known since childhood that not all people have the same views as themselves. In this world, there are actually many people with different ideas, but we must respect each other in the face of such people. You can't force the other person to agree with you, but you must first know how to consider the feelings of others.
Second, how to teach children what is true kindness 1. Let children distinguish right from wrong is also a prerequisite, the condition is obedient and reasonable. The so-called simple and kind personal behavior made by an unreasonable person is stupid and kind. This kind of kindness will not only help others, but will destroy truly kind people. Parents should educate their children, face simple and kind goals, and talk about things from a rational point of view, instead of helping those at a disadvantage. Kindness must "peek at human nature" and peek at these objects hidden in the phenomenon. Many people's shortcomings have hidden power, so the support of not knowing right and wrong is, in a sense, sick.
2. Kindness does not mean weakness. If necessary, many people with bad intentions want to treat others sincerely as a kind of weakness and can bully them at will. Most people who have been bullied by others can't tell the value of this practice, and occasionally choose to forgive or forget. Parents should tell their children that they are kind-hearted and give more to those who deserve our help. Some people who are not worthy of being treated sincerely by others will either avoid or fight back when they are about to take the initiative to bully. This kind of counterattack is excessive defense, not hurting others. If you are not sure, you must choose to tell the teacher or parents and let the more authoritative person judge this matter.