Parents' exemplary power in family education and children's education should be valued. Children's world is clear and gentle, so parents should encourage their children more. The world of children is pure. Let's share the example power of parents in family education.
Parents' exemplary strength in family education is 1 In family education, we often hear a saying called "fish begins to stink at the head". This warns people: in every family, parents should set an example and set a good example for their children; If parents deviate from this example, their children's behavior may get into bad habits. Therefore, parents should set an example for their children and let them have an object to follow. The power of this example is enormous.
Psychology believes that children will imitate the actions of adults from the first year of their lives. Imitation is an important psychological feature that runs through children, adolescents and youth. The effect of imitation depends on objectivity and subjectivity. Accessibility of the object, vividness of its characteristics, authority of the object to children, etc. , are easy to cause imitation. Parents are the closest people to their children, and they are the closest emotionally; It also has certain authority; The younger, the more so; The changes and characteristics of parents' every move are easy to be imitated by children as long as they attract their attention and interest.
Therefore, parents are not only their children's first teachers, but also their first role models. The sooner the parents' behavior affects their children, the longer it will take. The reason why many children behave like their parents is not entirely due to heredity. More importantly, some psychologists have investigated the intelligence, knowledge, personality and interests of young children and found that they are closely related to the influence of family, mainly parents. Some psychologists have investigated juvenile delinquency and found that the crime rate of their children is quite high in families with criminal history or bad moral character. It can be seen that parents' psychological outlook, personality characteristics and moral quality have a direct impact on the healthy growth of their children.
Of course, "the upper beam is not straight and the lower beam is not straight" is not necessarily true. With excellent parents, children may not be able to enter the "safe" with excellent moral development. The complexity of social struggle and children's ever-changing environment also affect their physical and mental development all the time. Therefore, parents should not only pay attention to words and deeds, but also conduct persuasive teaching according to their children's characteristics, so as to combine words and deeds and guide their children to develop morally, intellectually and physically in an all-round way.
The example power of parents in family education 2 After children are born to early childhood, the living environment is mainly in the family, and parents are the people who have the most contact. Parents' words and deeds influence their children all the time. In order to cultivate excellent next generation, parents must set an example.
Childhood is an important period for the formation of children's personality and morality. Under the influence of parents' education, children in this period can initially master simple rules of behavior and evaluation of people and things, good and bad, beautiful and ugly, and begin to know what is good and bad, but these good and bad judgments come from parents' standards. Therefore, in daily life, parents say "good" and "good" to encourage and strengthen their children's good behavior; Bad behavior should be denied and stopped by "disobedience", "bad" and "no" Over time, children will know what to do and what not to do, thus developing a preliminary code of conduct. If parents tolerate their children's bad behavior, children will not understand that what they are doing is not good, nor will they cultivate good moral quality.
Imitation is the main way for children to learn. When children can imitate adults to sweep the floor and clean the table, they can also imitate other behaviors of adults, such as language, living habits, and ways of treating people. Because children's ability is limited, their imitation is not selective, and some bad habits, uncivilized language and even bad behavior of parents may be imitated by children. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their role as role models, set a good image for their children, set an example, and cultivate their children's good moral quality, good behavior habits and good personality.