Controlled family
Parents of controlled families are meticulous in their children's life planning, and the children cultivated by this model may have problems such as inferiority, cowardice and interpersonal obstacles. In fact, the education mode of controlled families is not easy, and parents need to invest huge energy, and at the same time, they must ensure that they can provide practical material security and bear the responsibility of making mistakes.
A laissez-faire family
Laissez-faire families can be subdivided into luggage-throwing families and independent families. Parents who value their children's independence will choose laissez-faire as an educational means; Parents who throw away their baggage will take laissez-faire as their educational purpose. However, laissez-faire education is extremely unfavorable to children's growth and may lead to extreme tendencies in interpersonal relationships.
Independent education
In the choice of family education mode, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's independence. In this mode, children can form the habit of being responsible for their own actions, form a self-motivated and active personality, and reduce the cost of parental discipline. Of course, the self-help mode needs parents' own mental health, and needs parents to have mature minds and see the essence of things, rather than blindly following traditional concepts.