Recently, I saw a video on the Internet about children's curiosity. The children in the video are usually very active, jumping up and down all day, which makes mom very upset. However, these days, the child suddenly became quiet and kept standing on the balcony looking out, which made his mother feel very strange.
On this day, the child ran to the balcony and looked out. The mother decided to see what the child was doing.
I saw the child wearing a furry hat, standing straight next to the guardrail on the windowsill, holding the guardrail with both hands, staring at the outside motionless, even putting aside his favorite pony, with a serious and excited expression, especially like an emperor looking at his hard-won country.
Mother approached the child, squatted down and looked out like a child. But there is only one construction site and one road outside, and there is no beautiful scenery. On second thought, what scenery a child sees at such a small time should be something specific, so what is the child looking at and why he is so fascinated. Mother looked out doubtfully.
Suddenly, my mother looked intently and found something. Looking at the baby's line of sight, she should be looking at that thing. It turns out that the child is not looking at the scenery outside, but at the excavator in the construction site. This discovery made my mother laugh and cry. It turns out that the child stands here like a contractor every day just to see the excavator.
This video caused comments from netizens:
Netizen 1: One person and one horse, with the demeanor of an ancient knight overlooking the world.
Netizen 2: Oh, my God, my cousin's son is only four months old, and he is going to hold an excavator, and so is my nephew.
Netizen 3: I think my family can supervise their work every day with this toot, and I can't laugh.
In fact, many boys are interested in cars and buildings, which is also their nature. Seeing this, it wasn't long before my parents were thinking about a problem. That is, if their interests are here, why don't parents start with their interests, stimulate their children's thirst for knowledge, develop their wisdom, and let them keep learning and studying, so as to gain more knowledge. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's interest in learning.
1, cultivate interest in learning with curiosity.
Children are curious and eager to learn, so parents should make full use of this feature to stimulate their interest in learning. Answer your child's questions positively. If parents don't know, we can tell them when we know. Don't lie to them, so that they won't ask questions they don't understand in the future, which will also hurt their enthusiasm and curiosity.
What parents should do is to guide them correctly. When they are curious about something, parents can spread the knowledge of such things to their children. If children are still curious after understanding the basic knowledge, parents can guide them to explore and learn more knowledge through exploration.
2, praise more, criticize less, and be good at discovering children's specialties.
Every child has advantages. Parents should be good at discovering their children's strengths and specialties, and take the opportunity to cultivate their children's interest in learning from a certain specialty. In addition, we should praise more and criticize less to enhance children's self-confidence. If the child does something wrong, let him understand the truth, not just criticize.
In this way, after a long time, children will feel poor in learning, feel depressed in learning, and will hate learning and lose interest in learning.
3. Create an external environment conducive to interest cultivation.
Interest comes from life. Take children to try all kinds of things, carefully observe their movements, tap their interests and actively guide them. Secondly, parents are the children's first mentor. Parents should set an example, love learning, and children will often learn.
Shakespeare's famous saying shows the importance of interest.
Parents should cultivate their children's interest in learning, improve their learning efficiency and let them enjoy the learning process. Don't force children to learn things they don't like, because we can't imagine how bad it is to study without interest.
I am the nurse of Nemo's mother and the mother of a 4-year-old baby. In the process of raising and educating children, you can ask me any questions. I hope my advice can help you solve the confusion and troubles in the process of taking care of your baby and let our children grow up better!