Children's independent ability
In order to exercise the child's independence, we let him cook by himself at noon. However, when we got home, the rice was not cooked and the induction cooker was broken. Instead of blaming the child, we realized that he might have something on his mind.
Spiritual communication between parents and children
In order to understand the children's worries, we decided to go out to eat hot pot and chat while eating. I asked my child to order his favorite food, and then tentatively asked him if he was under great pressure to study. After he denied it, I carefully asked him if he was interested. He replied shyly, "Not yet, just wiping the ball."
Encourage each other and make progress together.
I told my children that in the critical period of senior three, we should encourage each other, make progress together and strive to get into a good university. If you neglect your studies because of your feelings now, it may lead to instability in the future. I asked him if he had considered getting married, but he obviously didn't.
Successfully passed the college entrance examination.
After that chat, we never mentioned this topic again. Later, he successfully passed the college entrance examination and was admitted to a satisfactory university.