Song Qian played by Hong Tao is a single mother. After she divorced her husband, she raised her daughter alone, and her daughter became her whole life. Because Song Qian raised her daughter alone, her sense of security in life came from her absolute control over her daughter. Once there is a gap in control, she bares her teeth and declares sovereignty, which makes people around her unbearable. She wants a conjoined twins-style parent-child relationship: "I only have you, and you can only have me." A good parent-child relationship should start with letting go of moral kidnapping and treating children equally. Wise parents know how to quit properly and not control their children's lives in the name of love; Children should not be everything to their parents. Parents who really love their children should also learn to love themselves.
Huang Lei and Christina, the standard tiger mom and cat dad in the play. At home, the tiger mother sings the good COP and has a bad temper. She always says hit and forget, so she is not very strict with her son. Cat dad plays the bad COP. Whether it's work or children's education, he's always in it. Husband and wife have a harmonious relationship, a relaxed family atmosphere and a better living environment. Such children are also aura. Son space bound recovery is lively and varied. He always hangs out with his classmates and is nicknamed "Fang Monkey" at school.
Ji's father Ji Shengli is the district head, and his mother also works in the government. When Ji was very young, they went out to work hard. When the child was in the third year of high school, Ji Shengli finally transferred back to Beijing, but missed the companionship period of growing up. He doesn't understand children at all, and children don't understand him. There is a deep gap between father and son, and they want to be close, but they often quarrel when chatting and become strangers.
Of these three kinds of family education, I think Huang Leihai is the best. what do you think?