There are 55 students in our class. They are like 55 cute and naughty elves. They are around me all day, twittering and bustling, and I am often immersed in this happy ocean.
In fact, every student is a book you haven't read, which needs the teacher to read slowly; It is also a flower that is about to bloom. Every flower needs a teacher's patience, a torch to be lit and a teacher's guidance. Some of them are psychologically fragile, while others are prone to mood swings. If the teacher is full of love and care at this time, it will definitely change a student's behavior habits. On the contrary, even an inappropriate criticism may seriously dampen students' self-esteem. As a class teacher, I often encounter many headaches. How to get along well with students and how to build the trust between me and students are issues that I often have to think about.
I noticed him on the first day of school. He is not generally naughty in class, and takes other people's things for a while; Talk to others later; Hide under the seat for a while ... at first I really wondered if he had ADHD. From his former kindergarten class teacher, I learned that Sun Langqi's brain is very flexible and quick, but he is too naughty and likes to talk in class. So I put his seat at the first table!
Although he doesn't behave well in my class, I really like this cute little boy and I'm thinking about how to educate him. I think the answer is one word: love! Every time he speaks in class, I will call his name. It can be said that he was called the most times during that time. The first time he called his name, he was surprised and shocked! It seems that it is really important to remember the students' names! Every time his name is called, he will restrain himself, and then he can't control himself. Nevertheless, I have never scolded him or given up on him. I think it is impossible for his habits to change suddenly, not to mention that he is still a child who knows nothing. I need more time and effort!
Such children, in the eyes of teachers, must not be their "obedient good children." Once he is disobedient, he will often be criticized by the teacher. I think positive encouragement and affirmation may have a greater effect on him. I asked them to practice calligraphy carefully and write neatly in strokes. He couldn't wait to show it to me after writing it. I looked at it and found that his handwriting was really much better than I expected, so I praised and affirmed it in time. He smiled happily after listening. Maybe he hasn't been praised for a long time! Since then, I feel closer to him.
At the same time, communicate with parents, teach parents some good ways to cultivate their children's patience, and encourage parents and children to persist. In the later days, he became more and more serious. I can talk occasionally in class, but compared with before, I have really made great progress! In the past, I could only get "good" in my homework, but now I can get "excellent". I also found that he likes painting very much. According to his hobby, I took time to teach him to draw. He found it more interesting and liked me very much. In this way, I influenced him with love. Without love, there is no education! Love is the best education! Don't think children don't know anything, but they can really feel your love for them. Of course, it takes your time and patience.
For those special students, give special love and don't give up easily. Criticizing him every day, or leaving him alone, is not desirable and does great harm to young minds. Only love can make them feel valued again, only love can make them feel that they are not alone, and only love can achieve the real purpose of education. Love is not a virtual word, we need to treat our children and education with heart!
2. Idiom story about education: When Mencius was young, his father died young and his mother didn't remarry. At first, they lived next to the cemetery. Mencius and his neighbor's children learned to bow down and cry like adults and played a funeral game. Mencius' mother looked at it and frowned: "No! I can't let my children live here! " Mencius' mother took Mencius to the market and lived near the place where pigs and sheep were slaughtered. When they arrived at the market, Mencius and the children in the neighborhood learned that businessmen were doing business and slaughtering pigs and sheep. Mencius' mother knew this and frowned: "This place is not suitable for my children to live in!" "So they moved again. This time, they moved near the school. At this time of the first day of the summer calendar every month, officials go to the Confucian Temple, bow down and treat each other politely. Mencius learned to remember what he saw. Mencius' mother nodded with satisfaction and said, "This is where my son should live!" " "
Later, people used "Meng Mu's Three Movements" to explain that if people want to learn good habits, they should be close to good people, things and things!
It also shows that the environment can change a person's hobbies and habits.