A century-long plan, education-oriented, children are not only the hope of a family, but also the tomorrow and future of society. I hope every child is healthy and happy, which is the common wish of parents and schools. How is home-school cooperation more conducive to the healthy growth of children?

Let's look at some real cases.

Case 1: Meng Mu's Three Movements A great mother created a great life for her children!

Mencius was a native of Shandong during the Warring States Period. When Mencius was three years old, his father died young, and his mother didn't remarry, raising Mencius with one hand. Mencius was very playful and imitative when he was a child. Once, they lived next to the cemetery. Mencius and his neighbor's children learned to bow down and cry like adults and played a funeral game. Mencius' mother looked at it and frowned: "No! I can't let my children live here! " Mencius' mother took Mencius to live next to the market. When he arrived at the market, Mencius and his neighbor's children began to learn how businessmen do business. Bow to welcome guests, entertain guests, bargain with guests for a while, and behave well! Mencius' mother knew this and frowned: "This place is not suitable for my children to live in!" "So they moved again. This time, they moved near the school. Mencius began to be orderly and polite, and liked reading. At this time, Mencius' mother nodded with satisfaction and said, "This is where my son should live!" " "

Case 2: Wise parents always help teachers to create a beautiful image in their children's minds.

Teachers reflect the real education in the growth of students, not avoiding, not being hypocritical and respecting their parents. The orientation and choice of parents should be correct. In children's education, parents should let their children feel that the image and status of teachers are irreplaceable. Parents support teachers in a flexible way and always create a beautiful teacher image in their children's minds. This is the most beautiful education!

Poverty inherits the wind! We parents don't want our children to grow up, and we don't want our children to grow up. As parents, we have paid too much. Among our parents, there are winners who "teach children well" and losers who "don't know how to teach". The positive and negative experiences are condensed into one sentence-family education is really a compulsory course for our parents.

So how to carry out scientific family education? Or what is the core of education? How do we raise children? This requires good cooperation between families and schools and a united front. It can be said that the influence of family education on children's life is very important.

1. Cultivate children's simple patriotic feelings. Guide parents to pay attention to the value of excellent traditional culture, understand the characteristics and customs of hometown and the common customs of the Chinese nation, and live well the traditional festivals and modern public festivals in China; Carry out education on feelings of home and country, and tell children stories of people with lofty ideals, traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and national development achievements. Guide children to write Chinese characters and speak Chinese well; Understand the connotation of excellent traditional culture and cultivate children's sense of belonging and pride as a member of the Chinese nation.

2. Improve children's moral cultivation. Guide parents to improve their moral cultivation, set an example for their children everywhere, and cultivate children's good moral behavior habits by combining moral examples and easy-to-understand moral stories around them; Create a healthy and upward family atmosphere; Work together with schools and society to purify the family and social and cultural environment; Focus on the big picture, start from the small things, seize the daily life events in time, teach children to honor their elders, respect their teachers, learn to be grateful, help others, be honest and do things with integrity.

3. Cultivate children's awareness of cherishing life and respecting nature. Guide parents to integrate life education into life practice, lead children to understand life phenomena in nature, and help children establish the consciousness of loving, cherishing and caring for life; Seize daily life events, increase children's awareness of self-protection and basic knowledge and skills of self-help; Guide children to establish the development concept of respecting nature, adapting to nature and protecting nature, and develop the habit of frugality, low carbon and environmental protection.

4. Cultivate children's good study habits. Guide parents to pay attention to the cultivation of children's interest in learning, protect and develop children's curiosity, and encourage children's exploration behavior; Guide children to form the habit of completing tasks independently on time, summarizing in time and not knowing how to ask questions, and become the master of learning; Correctly treat children's academic performance, set reasonable expectations, and don't blindly compare; Look at and evaluate children with a comprehensive and developmental perspective, and enhance their confidence in learning.

6. Cultivate children's work habits. Guide parents to correctly understand the value of labor to children's growth; Insist on starting from the nuances, improve children's self-care ability and develop self-care habits; Give children the opportunity to work, teach them certain labor skills, cultivate their enthusiasm for work, and establish the concept that labor creates value; According to the characteristics of children's age, gender difference and physical condition, arrange appropriate labor content, time and intensity, and do a good job in labor protection; Let children know about family income and expenditure, participate in family financial budget appropriately, give appropriate pocket money according to family economic situation and children's age, guide children to control pocket money reasonably, and form a correct consumption consciousness.

7. Actively participate in home-school cooperative education. Guide parents to actively communicate with the school, understand their children's study life at school, cooperate with the school to complete corresponding educational activities, and improve their learning effect; Participate in the parents' committee, parents' school, parents' meeting activities and parent-child activities of the school, and consciously accept family education guidance; Actively participate in school management, actively contact social resources according to needs, and jointly create a good educational environment with schools.

Let's take a look at the minefield of family education. Have you ever stepped on it?

Eight Mistakes in Family Education

The first big misunderstanding: emotions impact reason;

The second biggest misunderstanding: too much randomness and poor planning;

The third misunderstanding: too much oral preaching and too little multi-channel education;

The fourth misunderstanding: parents demand more adults and ignore the characteristics of children;

The fifth misunderstanding: the education of elders in family education is inconsistent;

The sixth misunderstanding: the lack of labor education in family education;

The seventh misunderstanding: ignoring mental health education;

The eighth big misunderstanding: Four stresses and four despises in family education.

Ten failures of family education

First, overindulgence and neglect of the cultivation of non-intellectual factors;

Second, mental violence stifles the establishment of independent personality;

The third is material stimulation, which induces disguised money worship;

Fourthly, corporal punishment is the best accomplice of exam-oriented education;

Fifth, it is changeable and lacks the foresight and stage of educational goals;

Sixth, psychologically, children are the most familiar strangers to their parents;

Seventh, in career, children become tools for parents to realize unrealized ideals;

Eighth, in terms of morality, parents and school education are blank;

Ninth, in life, there is almost a flood of material support;

Tenth, sex education is a stumbling block to children's smooth growth.

Ten knives for family education

Knife 1: too much care makes children not know how to cherish;

The second knife: too much nagging makes children rebel;

The third knife: too much intervention makes children lack autonomy;

The fourth knife: too many expectations make children unbearable;

The fifth knife: too much blame makes children lose motivation;

The sixth knife: too much accommodation, so that children do not know the constraints;

The seventh knife: too much concern makes children threaten their parents;

The eighth knife: enjoy too much, so that children don't know thrift;

The ninth knife: too much satisfaction makes children lack happiness;

Knife 10: Overindulgence hinders children's growth.

Piaget, a famous child psychologist, believes that children can acquire real knowledge only by participating in specific activities themselves, and then form their own assumptions and confirm or deny them. If they want their children to become qualified primary school students, besides school education, family education is also very important. Today's children are very smart, but under the condition of studying in the same school and teaching by the same teacher, some children make rapid progress, some children make slow progress, some develop in an all-round way, and some develop unevenly. The reason is that family education is an important factor. Grasping family education well and scientifically can create good conditions for children's growth and development. Children may make rapid progress, but parents are just busy with other affairs. If you don't take good care of the management and education of children, they may make slow progress and have poor academic performance, and some may even get worse. So how can we carry out scientific family education?

We must fully care for children and help them develop morally, intellectually and physically.

In moral education, we should cultivate children, set up lofty ideals from childhood, and aspire to be useful talents to society. It is necessary to cultivate children with good moral quality, study hard, observe discipline, love labor, care for others, and be hardworking and simple. At present, special attention should be paid to educating children to love science, study science and study hard for the motherland and people with science.

In intellectual education, we should always care about children's learning, attach great importance to it, understand the situation in depth, and sometimes participate in children's learning. You can study and discuss together, read books in advance, preview, discuss and discuss some problems in your study with your children, sacrifice some rest time and practice with students more, which can fully arouse your enthusiasm for learning. In addition, we should also pay attention to cultivating children's good study habits and methods, such as preparing lessons, paying attention to lectures, and paying attention to lectures. Finish the homework assigned by the teacher with good quality and quantity after school, and form the habit of careful inspection. When reading extracurricular books, you should look up new words in the dictionary. If you don't understand them, ask others until you understand them. In short, it is necessary to cultivate children's good habits of active learning and independent learning. The average age of students in the juvenile class of the University of Science and Technology of China is 14 years old, which is a common reason why their intelligence exceeds that of teenagers of the same age. Everyone has a good family education environment, so that they can study hard and study hard. Therefore, parents should proceed from their children's actual situation, teach according to their characteristics, strive to create good learning conditions for their children, cultivate their good habits, and promote their children to accept and absorb more knowledge smoothly.

In sports, primary school students are in a long physical period, characterized by being active. Parents must properly guide their children to participate in activities beneficial to physical and mental development, but should avoid excessive play affecting rest and study, encourage children to do legal, safe and beneficial activities to promote health and development, and ensure that children have sufficient rest and sleep time. Pupils should sleep 65,438+00 hours every day, read and write, and pay attention to moderate light, neither too bright nor too bright. Children should not be partial to food, so as to absorb all kinds of nutrients, control snacks and educate children to pay attention to hygiene. Brush your teeth and wash your face every day, often cut your nails and wash your hair, take a shower, change clothes frequently and so on.

It is necessary to understand the age characteristics of children and adopt different educational methods according to different characteristics.

The curious thinking of primary school students is more concrete, so parents should not educate their children in an adult way, but should have various forms and lively and interesting contents. For example, they can tell stories and watch related TV programs to stimulate children's interest in learning. Parents should pay special attention to their children's school life, always know their children's school performance, patiently listen to their stories and experiences, affirm their children's progress in learning in time, and let their children get the satisfaction of success. It is extremely important to cultivate learning interest, establish learning confidence and improve learning enthusiasm. For children who are backward in learning, we should not ignore their small progress. We should be good at catching the bright spots, giving praise and encouragement in time, and cultivating children's learning confidence. The survey shows that most students with excellent grades study and live very regularly. Generally, after school, I finish my homework and watch TV for a while. Parents choose some meaningful programs for their children, such as children's programs. Popular science news, happy dictionary, etc. In particular, most of these children have developed the habit of reading after class at home. They read extensively, which not only supplements and deepens their study in class, but also further stimulates their interest in learning.

Strengthen contact with schools and cooperate with teachers to do a good job in children's education.

In the process of children's growth, there will be various situations for various reasons. Parents should contact the school in time to understand the performance of their children in all aspects so as to take effective measures in time. Parents should trust teachers, and teachers should reflect students' situation to parents. Most of them are out of love for students and out of cultivating the sense of responsibility of the next generation. Therefore, parents should cooperate with teachers to educate their children well.

Strengthen communication with children every day.

Take some time to communicate with children, understand their study life, understand their thoughts, and consciously guide them to ask questions. Over time, under the guidance of parents, children become thoughtful, independent and thoughtful children, and their language expression ability, writing ability and writing ability will be subtly improved. Timely praise, praise is a positive evaluation of children's good behavior, which can promote students' self-motivation and make students' behavior better and better. Therefore, parents must not hesitate to praise their children, especially "children with bad behavior habits should be good at discovering the bright spots in him", taking this as an opportunity to praise them in time and turn shortcomings into advantages. Children trust their parents through words and deeds. Therefore, parents should be more strict with themselves in their daily behavior and always ask themselves to pay attention to the norms and demonstrations of their behavior in time. Scientists' research proves that it takes at least 2 1 day to form a habit. I often hear some parents complain that their children are not as sensible and competitive as others' children, and they hate iron to produce. Children's primary school stage is an important stage in life. Good habits need to be cultivated, and you, your children and the school need to cooperate together. Pay attention to cultivating them at ordinary times. Good habits benefit life, and bad habits harm life.

In addition, we should pay attention to two problems in family education. First of all, we should analyze the child's performance from two aspects. We should see both advantages and disadvantages. We should praise the advantages and criticize the shortcomings in time. We should not praise and criticize blindly, but should combine praise and criticism. Appropriate, don't make the child perfect when praising, and don't be simple and rude when criticizing, so that the child is useless. In addition, parents should coordinate their children's education, and some parents have different opinions when educating their children. For example, if a child makes a mistake, his father criticizes his mother for being eccentric and often quarrels about it, which makes the child unable to distinguish right from wrong, which is not conducive to correcting mistakes in time.

Parents and friends, please come with us. Let's go in the same direction-train your children, our students.