Don't treat it simply and rudely, so that children will lose their self-esteem in resentment. But to be persuasive and rational, so that children can build up their self-esteem unconsciously. ? Children have a strong sense of "self-centeredness". As parents, we should be good at grasping the little things in life, explaining the simple truth to our children, educating and cultivating the habit of thinking from the standpoint of others, and gradually getting rid of the consciousness of "self-centeredness", so that children can feel that people are equal, so as to understand that only by respecting others can others respect their own truth.
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Satire and sarcasm will make children feel inferior and lose their self-esteem, so we should actively encourage them, praise or reward them appropriately, and let them build their self-esteem in pride. Children are competitive and self-motivated, and hope to be recognized by adults, but because they are young and ignorant, they will inevitably make mistakes or fail to do what adults want. In this regard, children should not be blamed too much, but should seize their small progress, stimulate their enthusiasm, enable them to overcome their own shortcomings, and enhance their self-esteem and self-confidence in continuous progress.
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Being indifferent and bored with children will make children lose their self-esteem in disappointment. We should create opportunities for children to express themselves and build self-esteem in satisfaction. Children love to express themselves, like to do things, and prefer success. Adults should not be afraid of being bored and dirty, so that children will shrink back. Instead, we should create opportunities for them as much as possible, show their talents, and encourage them to make progress with caressing smiles and sincere praise. This can not only enhance children's self-confidence, but also cultivate the feelings between parents and children.