What can be done to educate an excellent child?
1. Know your children.
Knowing children is like knowing fathers, and knowing women is like knowing mothers. Children grow up with their parents. Parents know their children in detail, including their personality, habits, IQ, EQ, etc. "Know yourself and know yourself, and fight every battle", know your children, teach them in accordance with their aptitude, know how to treat them and how to educate them. Only in this way can children grow up healthily and happily.
Encourage children
It is common for children to like to listen to performances and praise. When they hear praise, children will be happy, interested and enthusiastic to do it. If children hear criticism, they will lose interest and enthusiasm immediately. Therefore, we should praise our children's achievements, praise them for doing the right thing, give them confidence, and let them know that parents will like and praise them only if they do well. Encouragement is one of the ways to make children become better and better.
3. Respect children's wishes
Many parents are willing to provide good living conditions for their children, but they don't know how to respect their thoughts and wishes. They are more accustomed to directing their children and making them listen to their parents. If children have different opinions, they will be scolded by their parents. This will make their children resist, refuse to listen to their parents, and even do the opposite. So parents should learn to respect their children's wishes.
4. Learn to listen to children's voices
Children also have the desire to tell. Many parents think that their children have nothing to say, but eat and wear warm clothes every day. However, children are also independent individuals. They must also deal with children and adults. When children are confused, they also have the desire to tell others when they are unhappy. Children tell their parents that the first thing they think of is their parents. Parents will solve the problems faced by children in time and enhance the intimate relationship between parents and children. Therefore, parents should learn to listen to their children's voices.
5. Love your children
Lu Xun said: Education is rooted in love.
Parents' education for their children almost incorporates all their efforts and love. Only by loving children and letting them grow up in the whirlpool of love can children grow up happily.
To love children is not to spoil them, but to give them good habits and correct choices rationally, so that they can become better and better.