In the harsh educational environment of the family, parents want their children to succeed. However, children's psychological endurance is limited after all. When the pressure reaches a certain level, it needs to be relieved through some channels. At this time, some children will abuse small animals. This behavior may be a way for children to vent their depression and relieve tension. Other children abuse small animals because they want to show their ability by bullying others, or they have been bullied by others, seeking help or just expecting the situation to change, but the problem has not been solved. This kind of emotional pressure also makes children unable to treat things in a correct psychological state, which eventually turns into emotional outbursts under pressure.
Psychologists believe that human beings have the instinct of attack and destruction, and when they encounter psychological pressure and frustration, they may re-stimulate the motivation of attack and appear aggressive. When a person can't fight back against the aggressor for some reason, he often finds a scapegoat to vent his anger. Generally speaking, to correct children's "quirks" of abusing small animals, we must first find out the causes of children's bad behavior, and then take corresponding measures according to the reasons to alleviate and alleviate children's psychological pressure; Pay more attention to children in life; When children encounter problems and difficulties in learning and communication, parents should help them solve them in time, be good friends of their children, and let them feel the warmth and care of their families.
This parent friend said it was "getting stronger and stronger". Presumably, before this, the child already had a "criminal record." I'm curious about what kind of behavior will make you worry enough to help your child find a psychiatrist. But from your description, although full of strong feelings, I think, at least this time, the child's "dog abuse" may not be out of malice. I don't know how old the child is, but it is normal for the child to be curious about the puppy that has just been born for more than ten days and want to play with it. Just as a child, he still doesn't know the correct way to make friends with small animals. Treating a small animal may be like playing with his favorite plastic toy. But when he hurt the puppy unconsciously and saw it in pain, he would kick the puppy for fear of being blamed by his parents.
We might as well let children know in vivid forms that small animals are not toys in his hands, but lives like ours. If we treat them maliciously, they will also feel pain, discomfort and sadness. And treat them kindly, and they will repay us with kindness, trust and warmth. If this happens, I will say to the child, "Look, the dog is very unhappy now, because it wants to be good friends with you, but you hurt it." If mom and dad hit you like this, would you feel bad? Mom will accompany you to say sorry to the dog and rub its legs, okay? "Parents should consciously let their children get in touch with nature and watch more small animals, at least natural biology science programs or books. If conditions permit, children can also keep small animals as their parents' domestic partners. Through the guidance of parents, it is also a growing experience to explore the mystery of life and let children relieve their fear of small animals and cultivate love.