Through the Saturday lecture hall organized by the Education Bureau, I benefited a lot from the "three widths" education of Peking University education experts. Let me understand that family education is the earliest education and has a deep influence on children. Now there is only one child in each family, and parents can't afford to lose. But how to educate children is correct, but it has always been a problem that puzzles every parent, and I am no exception. While listening to the expert's explanation, I am also reflecting on the expert's point of view. I found that there are many misunderstandings in my educational viewpoint and practice, but fortunately, there are also some right places.
To tell the truth, I am not very clear about the psychological and physical characteristics of children in this period. In most cases, as long as it is not a dangerous move or an incorrect outlook on life, I will let nature take its course. Let him realize the truth through his own gains and losses. But sometimes I can't carry out this principle to the end, especially when I feel that my children are behind other children, I will doubt my own practice. You will be angry with the child and criticize him. After that, I also regretted it.
The "three widths" mentioned by experts made me realize that I should be patient with my children and not be too anxious. Children still have a long way to go, so don't rush for success. Teacher Liu said to look in the mirror when you lose your temper and let me know how ugly you are when you lose your temper. How afraid children are of jumping and fear. How scared adults are in this fear and fear, let alone a child who is very dependent on you. In this case, any education for children is counterproductive.
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My children will make such and such mistakes, for the mistakes in life. I, Liu, show great patience, and sometimes I wake him up with a whip when I think about it, because he has suffered losses and he will listen. Sometimes I can't see or forget to remind you. If I fail a few more times, he will learn from it and change. I am lazy. In addition to teaching vanadium education safely, I will take precautions. When I meet roses, I always make mistakes in my life. Because he won't make some mistakes, the child has the nature and advantages of the child. For example, my children don't need to emphasize Wei thallium. For example, it seems that he was born innocent. I love washing my hands since I was a child, and I don't eat dirty things, including bitten things. I found this. I believe my children still have many qualities and advantages that I haven't discovered. I don't know what I want him to change. I don't need him to change anything. Therefore, what needs to be corrected in life should be corrected.
But the exam-oriented education in China, combined with my life experience, makes me think about my children's academic performance now, which is a bit morbid. I am extremely sensitive to his learning attitude and methods. I always feel that if I don't study for a day, I will be left behind. If I don't do well in the final exam, everything will be over. As long as he shows no desire to study, I think there is something wrong with his attitude towards learning. I can't learn well anymore. I also believe that witch quality education is more important than exam-oriented education. But I have zero tolerance for children's mistakes in learning. Now I also find that my children are a little tired of learning. Every day, I always try to avoid urging him to study. His study efficiency is not high. The result of my study can never satisfy me. I think he may be in a state of fear when studying, so his efficiency is not high. This is where I should change. In the future, I will be more tolerant of children's learning and trust them.
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The child's ability. Strive to achieve what experts call unconditional love, find more advantages of children, praise them more, and let him build up self-confidence. Be patient with his lack of study and let him study in a relaxed environment.
The sentence "Parents study hard and children make progress every day" is very good. It also shows a moral that only when parents learn to be qualified parents can their children make progress. When children have problems, I think we should first find the reasons from ourselves. Find the corresponding solution according to the child's special moment, and the child will make progress. The formation of children's good habits and morality is not once and for all, nor is it a race against time. I must use the attitude of "three forbearance" to correct my child's mistakes. Finally, let me use the attitude of "three widths" to give children a "three widths" environment. Let our children not only grow up healthily, but also form a correct outlook on life and become independent people.