1, know children better. While parents are busy making a living, they must take time to learn more about their children, communicate with their children and teachers, and try their best to fully grasp their children's performance in school and family. The more you know, the less you misunderstand. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, he will know more about how to guide the child.

2. Transfer children's interest. Adolescent children are full of energy and have great activity energy. Parents should not think that they can tie their hearts by studying all day. Parents' task is to enrich family life and arrange some interesting activities for the whole family every weekend, so that children can look forward to the weekend. In this way, children's attention and excitement can be transferred to healthy and beneficial activities, and they can find a place for their abundant energy.

Don't fight with rebellious girls. It is best not to fight hard with her during the rebellious period, but to forgive or understand, and let her experience it herself. Under your persuasion, she will understand it when she grows up. If she does something wrong, don't beat and scold, be considerate of her, and gradually understand that people's thoughts will mature with growth.

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4. Let children learn to care about each other. When parents ask to interfere with their children's actions, they should directly express their worries and worries, so that children can know their parents' love. Some parents try their best to suppress their anger, ask the reason calmly and explain that they are worried because they don't know why you came home late. I hope you can stand from your parents' point of view, understand their love and difficulty, and come back early in the future.

I believe that after listening to these words, sensible children will feel guilty and self-reproach for their parents' uneasiness caused by their lateness, and will not have conflicts and conflicts with their parents' interference.

5. Reconcile the relaxed family atmosphere. Girls in the rebellious period need an independent space, a private space of their own. They have their own troubles, feelings and thoughts. They don't want to be controlled and disturbed by their parents, and they don't want to be endlessly influenced by their parents' nagging. Therefore, letting go properly is also an education, a better education.