There is a story in the book Education of Love that impressed me deeply. The Little Artist tells the story of a circus clown. Although not many people watched the performance, he still worked hard, hoping to make the audience happy. Life was hard, but the clown's lovely black face was still smiling. Our hero Amrico and his father felt sorry for him, so they asked a painter to draw a portrait of a clown, and his father printed it in the newspaper with words, hoping that more people would go to see his performance. After the performance was successful, Amrico's father didn't want the clown to thank him, so he left early after watching the performance. At the end of the performance, the clown gave Amrico fruit instead of Amrico's money. However, the most surprising thing is that the clown thanked Amrico and his father by asking Amrico to give him a kiss. This is the "education of love". Amrico and his father spare no effort to help strangers, but they want nothing in return. As the lowest-level artists, they know how to be grateful. In this case, they echo each other, because love has no boundaries.
In fact, love is a pocket, which always brings satisfaction; And going out brings a sense of accomplishment. Love is a feeling, but it is also an ability. When a child gives love and is solemnly accepted, he will strongly feel the respect and sacredness of being loved. What is more important than giving is to guide children how to learn to love. "Education without emotion and love is like a pond without water. Without water, there is no pond, without love, there is no education. " These are the words of Mr. Xia Gaizun, who once translated this book. The Education of Love published by Italian writer Amicus 1886 has also been included in the International Andersen Prize "Must-read Bibliography for Teenagers".
In real life, we often hear a lot of news reports: a hero gave his life to save people, but unfortunately the hero left us forever. The hero's family was heartbroken and cried, Why is the son so stupid? On the surface, people around praised the hero's big moves, but behind his back, he said that this man was really stupid! He lost his life to save a stranger. At the same time, they will repeatedly say to their children, "Don't do similar things when you go, keep your head." Otherwise, how sad the family should be. "
This is part of people's "love education" for children. Indeed, it can be called "education of love". They care about their children's lives. But love here is for your own selfish desires. People don't want their children to emphasize to their children over and over again in order to save others' lives. But as everyone knows, when people educate their children in this way, they also learn or understand indifference and selfishness. Is this really a good "love education"?
Please remember that the education of love is not based on one's own selfish desires, but on the education of love based on distinguishing right from wrong. Never build castles in the air of education in the name of love!
A flower, a grass and a tree, everything has a sense of time. Maintain a childlike innocence, rich in emotions, and beauty is everywhere. Learning to be a child is to maintain this "childlike innocence", which will not disappear when you grow up.