Xiaomei's education for her son is open. She was too busy taking care of her husband to educate her son. Once at a party at a college classmate's house, her son and his classmate's son grabbed toys. Xiaomei's son did not say anything, but directly hit his classmate's son, causing a chaotic scene. Xiaomei's son also scratched his classmate's face with his nails, which frightened the parents present. This classmate may be a son who is anxious to be injured, and directly scolds Xiaomei's son for being uneducated.
The best way to educate children is to make rules, which should be formed before the child is ten years old and will affect his life. 1, be polite
Politeness is the most basic criterion for children, which should be cultivated and cultivated from an early age. Parents should tell their children to say hello, say hello and goodbye politely, learn to say thank you and learn to say sorry. Politeness is the most basic quality. Establishing such rules from an early age will affect a child's life. When they grow up, they will naturally be a high-quality young man who treats them with courtesy.
Parents should set an example and be polite to the people around them. Children will form a correct ideology in their eyes and deepen their understanding of polite behavior.
Don't talk loudly in public.
In public places, we often see "No Noisy" signs, and we should abide by them together. Public places are people's places, and good order needs to be maintained by everyone, especially libraries, concerts and other places that need to be quiet. If children talk loudly and run around untimely, it will greatly affect everyone's mood and cause trouble to others.
Therefore, parents should educate their children to distinguish between occasions, not to talk loudly in public, and not to disturb others is the principle of being a man.
Don't rummage around and take other people's things.
It is impolite to instill the concept of subject and object in children. It is polite and measured to be a guest in other people's homes, and don't rummage around without the owner's permission. This will make the host feel that the child is impolite and has no rules.
Even if you like it again, you should get the master's consent and respect others' wishes, so that others will respect you more.
Step 4 learn to praise
Praise is not flattery, but heartfelt praise for the advantages of others. Teaching children to see the advantages of others and convey their appreciation and praise to each other will give them great relief, and everyone will think that you are a child with high emotional intelligence and are good at discovering the advantages of others. Giving someone roses, fragrant hands and praising others at the same time can also improve cognition and broaden thinking.
In front of children, parents should not be stingy with praise, but praise the advantages and specialties of the other half, so that children can feel the benefits brought by praise, so that they will find more love and the beauty of the world.
5. There is no end to learning.
Learning is the greatest productivity. There is a golden house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book. Reading is like a book, writing is like a god. All these are telling the importance of reading and learning. From birth to old age, we can only accumulate and advance through continuous learning, broaden our horizons, broaden our minds, have a big pattern and have great wisdom through more learning.
It is necessary to establish correct study habits and reading ability for children, so that they can swim freely in the ocean of knowledge and write a bright future.