Faced with this situation, parents' reaction is very important, because not taking homework seriously is likely to affect children's academic performance. Then, what should parents do if their children are unwilling to do their homework?
0 1 The main reason why children don't want to do homework.
1, children are not interested in learning.
Parents don't have to say much about children who love learning. After school, they will consciously open their schoolbags, take out their exercise books and complete their tasks. This is because they are interested in learning and willing to learn.
For children who are not interested in learning or even bored, doing homework is tantamount to torture, so naturally they can stop doing it.
2. Parents' high expectations and expectations
Parents want their children to succeed. However, whether their children will have a bright future and whether they will achieve something does not mean that they can achieve what they expect. Parents need to teach according to their children's real abilities in order to better cultivate their children.
Some parents expect too much from their children, and always compare their children with those with excellent grades to force them to work hard. Because children can't stand the pressure, they will subconsciously "escape", and avoiding homework is also one of the manifestations.
The child is in a bad mood.
Some trivial things in life may also cause children not to do their homework. For example, if you meet a teacher you don't like or a subject you don't like, your child may get bored and avoid homework related to it. Parents need to learn to distinguish the specific reasons why children don't do homework and prescribe the right medicine.
4. Lack of self-discipline
Adults and children like to enjoy themselves, and no one is born to like doing things and working. However, people with high self-discipline know what they should do, but they can also control their desires and choose to force themselves to do something meaningful, while people without self-discipline are just the opposite.
In other words, if children are not self-disciplined and always have the psychology of being playful, then they will subconsciously avoid doing homework.
5. Children's rebellious psychology
Everyone's endurance is limited, and if it exceeds the limit, it may lead to resistance. If parents always urge and force their children to study and do their homework, and the children are tired of listening too much, they may choose to do the opposite and deliberately oppose their parents.
In other words, parents should not push their children's learning problems too hard, otherwise the result may be counterproductive.
Consequences of children's unwillingness to do homework
1, performance decline
Listen carefully in class, consolidate homework after class, and let children master knowledge faster and more firmly. Without this step of homework, children's mastery of knowledge will be "half-baked", which may seem to be mastered on the surface, but once they pass the exam and the later test, they will not stand the actual combat.
There is a reason why such children have poor academic performance and their academic performance has declined. Parents can't indulge their children's behavior.
2. Lack of sense of responsibility and responsibility
As a student, studying and doing homework is the responsibility and obligation of students. It is not required to finish the task on time, but at least it is a conscientious performance.
Children don't do their homework, which is a sign of shirking their responsibilities. If parents ignore it, children will become irresponsible and irresponsible after a long time.
Children don't do homework, die-hard parents learn 3 tricks, one cure and one accuracy.
1, improper "monitor", tolerant.
I am most afraid that parents will stare at their children and look at their homework like a "monitor", which will put a lot of pressure on them.
Just as parents don't want their boss to check their work progress from time to time, children don't like their parents watching them constantly.
Moreover, if a child accidentally makes a mistake in his homework, parents had better not beat and scold. It is normal to make mistakes, as long as they are corrected later. If parents are too strict, children will be afraid to do their homework.
2, make a good plan, rewards and punishments.
Many children are either unwilling to do their homework or procrastinate, resulting in low efficiency and poor quality. In order to correct children's bad habits, parents are advised to help their children plan their time and when to do things, and reward them on time, otherwise they will be punished. With "reward" and planning, children's interest and efficiency in doing homework can be greatly improved.
3, learn to "split", step by step.
Nowadays, children have heavy tasks and more homework. Because of too much pressure, many children will subconsciously avoid doing their homework.
In view of this situation, parents can teach their children to "split" the homework, grade all the homework and divide it into small goals, and then encourage their children to finish it one by one.
Because it is easy to accomplish small goals, this method can arouse children's interest in doing homework and make them more relaxed.