2. Strive to cultivate interest in learning and cultivate hobbies in interest. For a person who loves learning, learning is a pleasure rather than a burden. The future society is a learning society, and learning is lifelong. People who don't like learning can't do much in the future society.
3. Cultivate children's good will quality. Including consciousness, decisiveness, toughness, self-control and so on. You will often encounter all kinds of difficulties in your study. You must have the perseverance to overcome difficulties and conquer fortresses, and finally you can move towards new glory. In the process of learning, you will encounter various temptations, such as watching TV, chatting online and playing games. You need to have good self-control ability to overcome these temptations and devote yourself to your study.
4. Cultivate children's love and loyalty. Children are the future of the motherland. From primary school to high school to society, we should cultivate them to love the motherland, be loyal to the people, care about the collective and help the weak and the needy. Be able to stand up when the motherland and people need it, be caring, caring for the collective and others, and be kind and upright in daily life and study.
Teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. We should create a positive and harmonious family atmosphere.
Parents should become learning parents, and their learning behavior will exert a subtle influence on their children. It's best not to play cards and mahjong at home often, and don't drink and chat at weddings all day. We should give our children a relatively quiet learning environment. If there are differences between husband and wife, don't make noise in front of the children. When the children are not at home, we can sit down and discuss it slowly. In particular, differences in educational concepts should not be debated in front of children. As the saying goes, "people teach their children first, then persuade their husbands", so that there will be a harmonious family atmosphere. We should pay attention to protecting children's self-esteem, helping them build up their self-confidence, educating them to learn to understand and care about others, giving them good interpersonal relationships, giving themselves a harmonious learning environment, paying attention to their psychological development and helping them to pass adolescence smoothly.
Parents should be children's bosom friends.
Pay attention to children's psychological development. Some problems should be subtly passed on to children in the usual small talk, instead of waiting until the problems are discovered before adopting rude and arbitrary education methods. For example, the problem of puppy love, parents can show their attitude to this problem when watching TV or talking about the problem of puppy love of children of acquaintances.