Elder education itself is an unequal relationship. What the elder wants is exactly the opposite of what he actually does. For the elders, his education also wants to make you better, but sometimes it may be done in the wrong way, so it has the opposite effect. The elders are limited by their growing environment and cognition. Some ideas and concepts are outdated for young people, lacking in constructiveness and effectiveness, but they feel good about themselves and ask young people to do the same. Young people may not show it out of politeness, but they will stay away from each other next time.
What young people want most is equal communication and collision of ideas, not boasting. I hope the elders can pay attention to these two points and avoid minefields. Both parties will be very happy when they meet and chat.
In the education of elders, one of the most common features is that parents always have their own ideas and want to control their children and let them do what they want. This is actually a psychological control type. For various reasons, parents actually have a certain desire to control their children. After all, everyone's living environment is different, and parents also have their own lives. Perhaps it is because of the unsatisfactory life or work that parents are more willing to control their children with their own ideas, thus achieving a psychological balance.
Parents always subconsciously think that they have an advantage over their children. For everything a child does, they can always see what the child did wrong. It may sound like parents think their children are wrong, even a little funny, but parents just think their children are wrong. The education of the elders is that I need to educate you well, and you can also have the opportunity to refute and put forward your different opinions, but the elders just won't accept it.