"Language hunger" prevents children from speaking.
If the child speaks late, parents will think that there is something wrong with the child and that the child is sick, but they have not reflected on whether their educational methods are bad. For example, if a child needs something, parents will help her get it as long as they do it without expressing it. If in such an environment, children can achieve results through behavior without language at all, then the role of language will be forgotten. Moreover, parents always pay attention to the protection of children's material life, and there is less communication with children, which is very bad for children's language development and cognitive development.
Ways to prevent children from "language hunger"
There are many ways to exercise your baby's language ability. For example, parents often talk to your baby, let your baby express his ideas in words, and create a speaking environment for your baby. Parents should arrange activities according to their baby's characteristics and pay attention to their baby's language development and needs.
Method 1: If the baby is young, bedtime stories are very useful for developing language skills. When telling bedtime stories, parents should understand that the method of telling stories must be lively and interesting. When telling a story, if you can mobilize your baby's various senses, such as eyes, ears and hands. Then the baby's attention will focus on the story and stimulate intellectual development. However, you should know that you must choose a good story before going to bed. It's best to choose some easy and short stories, and don't choose stories that are too exciting and have certain suspense. Otherwise, not only can the baby not sleep quietly, but in many cases it will make the baby excited, and it may also cause the baby to have nightmares and affect sleep.
Method 2: When the child is older and has a certain language ability, parents can let the baby tell the story and repeat it. Mom and dad choose some short stories that are simple and easy to remember, and then tell them vividly to the baby. After listening to the story, let the baby tell the story again. If the baby is not fluent, you can invite the baby to play a role in the story and then finish the story together.
Method 3: It is also useful to tell a story that happened. Every night, parents had better let the baby talk about what he did today. You can say whether you are happy or not. Then, mom and dad should also talk to the baby about things at work. Through the communication between parents and children, the baby's language ability has been exercised, and the feelings between the baby and parents can also be strengthened.
Method 4: After the baby is older, parents can combine their baby's interests to exercise their baby's language skills, such as guessing games, word solitaire, puzzle games and role-playing. However, rhythmic children's songs are baby's favorite. Teach children to sing, plus some simple movements, or you can sing while walking, so that your baby can develop his language ability in a very pleasant atmosphere.
Brief parenting knowledge: let children have a good view of money.
The concept of money plays a vital role in everyone's growth, and it is very important to have a good concept of money. Next, let's take a look at what minefields there are on the road to cultivating children's concept of money.
1, start too late
We may feel that children don't seem to care about money at all, but they can't live without money anywhere. When the child is sitting in the supermarket shopping cart, when you check out, the child will see you take out the money in your wallet. The child can know that you are paying the gas bill by sitting in the back seat of the car. You will buy toys and clothes for your children, and you will spend a lot of money to do all kinds of things for your baby. These are actually expenses. In daily life, there are many opportunities to convey the concept of money to children. We can use these opportunities to explain to our children how we make money and how the money is used. Many times, parents rarely use these moments to talk about money with their children. When children grow up and need their own money, parents will tell them how difficult it is to make money.
2. Various celebrity effects
Now we will find many stars and online celebrities showing off their wealth in public. Because they have money, they will spend a lot of money on a dress and have a beauty treatment. Children are easy to imitate, and children will gradually buy all kinds of brand-name luxury goods. However, at present, the national per capita wage is only a few thousand RMB, and you can't buy famous brands if you want to buy them.
3, the difference in the concept of money.
When adults have different views on money, it is more troublesome for children to have a good view on money. Research shows that money can make many families quarrel. Children sometimes understand your feelings about money, and children will notice your pursuit of money. Family members have different ideas about money, so how can we make use of these differences? Tell children how everyone's view of money is formed and why they should work hard to make money. To understand other people's consumption habits, everyone's judgment on money is different. We should make money for ourselves, make ourselves better and realize our pursuit.
4. A wise solution
When teaching children the concept of money, we should mainly pay attention to the following points: a, buying things requires money; B, we earn money by working; C, when you can buy what you want, you need to work for a while; D, what you want is different from what you need.
Parenting tips Article 2 Don't think that it's easy to bring a baby because he doesn't know anything. Actually, I want to tell your parents that when the baby was born, he was ignorant. He sleeps and drinks milk all day, so the baby's small temper is only in the aspect of not having enough to eat. When the child grows up, the baby will come into contact with all kinds of things, and the child will start to lose his temper with things that he is not satisfied with. So mom and dad will find it more and more difficult to take care of the baby. If children are asked to do something, they will always refuse their parents and then say "no" to them, which makes them very depressed. Then I will tell you what to do when the child says no.
1. Why does the baby say "no"
After the baby is over one and a half years old, he doesn't listen to his parents very much. Even babies who used to be obedient have become headstrong now, always saying "no" and "don't" and often saying these words. Mom and dad are very sad about their children's behavior and seem to be at a loss. This is an inevitable stage of children's development, which is called children's resistance period.
2. The baby's language function needs to be improved.
Mom and dad put forward some requirements for the baby. Babies always don't listen to their parents, always say no, and sometimes they run away from their parents, concentrate on doing their own things and don't cuddle with their parents. This kind of behavior often occurs when the baby is two years old, which makes parents feel that the baby is always deliberately against himself.
In fact, this is not a simple denial or indifference of the baby's words and deeds to mom and dad, because at this stage, the baby's language ability is not very good, the baby can't say what he wants to say, and he can't understand the intentions of mom and dad at once, so the requirements for mom and dad can't be completed well. When the baby refuses his parents' request, he doesn't know how to explain it to his parents, just saying "don't" and "do it yourself". It is difficult for a baby to convey his thoughts to his parents, so parents will always think that he is "rebellious" and "willful". The reason why this happens is because the baby doesn't have enough language to express his feelings and needs, so he only writes his emotions and sorrows on his face.
When the baby is older, with the increase of memory and the enhancement of thinking ability, the baby can understand the thoughts of his parents well, and at the same time, he can learn and express more things in language, and better control his emotions and behaviors.
3. Guide the baby correctly
In addition, many parents understand that this is the normal growth stage of the baby, but when the baby is very disobedient, they will be at a loss. If mom and dad don't handle it well, there will still be many bad situations in the baby's growth stage.
Babies can now express resistance through actions and words, and refuse anything they don't like. At the same time, parents should understand that the baby is only a child under two years old. Having done many things, they didn't think about the result, so they didn't know the danger that would happen. Therefore, in addition to protecting the baby's safety, parents should also tell the baby more, teach him to consider the feelings of others, and let the baby know that he has something to say to his parents.
Mom and dad should stop the baby from doing some behaviors that may have dangerous consequences at the first time, and then explain and communicate with the baby well, tell him why he can't do this, and tell him: "Mom won't let you run on the road, because there are many cars here, and you will get hurt if you are not careful." At the same time, when parents put forward some requirements for their babies, they should also pay attention to ensuring that their requirements are reasonable.
What fruit does the baby eat in autumn?
Autumn is the season when melons and fruits are fragrant, and a large number of fresh fruits are listed grandly. For the baby who has just experienced the summer fruit feast, autumn is also a good season to eat fresh fruit. However, although fruit is rich in nutrition, it can't be eaten casually. The baby's gastrointestinal digestive ability is limited. What fruit should he eat? How to eat fruit? It's all questions that mom and dad need to consider.
Autumn is the most suitable fruit for babies.
In autumn, the weather is dry and the air is dry, so people are vulnerable to dryness and evil. Therefore, it is advisable to eat food that nourishes yin and lungs, moistens dryness and promotes fluid production in autumn. The following seven fruits are not only nutritious, but also good for moistening the lungs.
Pear: The meat is sweet and delicious, tender and juicy. Has the effects of clearing away heat and toxic materials, moistening lung, promoting fluid production, relieving cough and resolving phlegm. Raw food, juicing and stewing have a good therapeutic effect on cough and measles in children with lung heat.
Sugarcane: Sugarcane juice is flat and sweet, which is a good product for relieving fever, promoting fluid production, moistening dryness and nourishing. It can help the spleen to harmonize the middle energizer, eliminate phlegm and relieve cough, treat choking and stop vomiting, and has the reputation of "Natural Fumai Decoction". Traditional Chinese medicine often uses it as a refreshing agent to treat dry mouth, insufficient body fluid, dry stool, high fever, polydipsia and so on.
Citrus: Citrus is cool and sweet, which has the effects of relieving cough, moistening lung and resolving phlegm, sobering up and diuresis. Suitable for weak body, thirst after fever, etc. Squeezing juice or decocting with honey is especially good for treating cough caused by lung heat in children.
Pomegranate: it is warm and sweet, and it produces fluid to stop polydipsia. Any body fluid deficiency, dry mouth and throat, and polydipsia can be used as a good diet therapy. Pomegranate juice or decoction can clear away heat and toxic materials, moisten lung, relieve cough, kill insects and stop dysentery, and can be used to treat infantile malnutrition, chronic diarrhea and dysentery.
Jujube: It can nourish the stomach and spleen, replenish qi and promote fluid production, and has the effects of moistening the heart and lungs, nourishing the five internal organs, treating intestinal addiction and treating deficiency. Traditional Chinese medicine often uses it to treat children's autumn diarrhea, which is a widely used tonic.
Grape: It is nutritious, sweet and sour, and has the functions of nourishing liver and kidney, benefiting qi and blood, promoting fluid production and diuresis. Raw food can nourish yin and relieve annoyance. Pour the juice with cooked honey, fry the paste, and take it with boiling water. It is especially good for treating vexation and thirst.
Persimmon: Persimmon has the effects of moistening lung and relieving cough, clearing away heat and promoting fluid production, resolving phlegm and softening hardness. Eating fresh persimmon raw has a good effect on pulmonary tuberculosis, such as cough due to deficiency heat, cough due to excessive phlegm, and hemoptysis due to fatigue. Red, soft and ripe persimmons can cure fever, polydipsia, dry mouth and rotten lips, heart disease and dysentery.
It should be noted that persimmons should not be used excessively, especially when eaten with sweet potatoes and crabs. Persimmon phenol, tannin and gum in persimmon form insoluble lumps in the stomach. These lumps will not only make the baby constipated, but also may stay in the stomach and form stomach stones.
How does the baby eat fruit scientifically?
1. Eating fruit should be in the middle of two meals.
Babies should not eat fruits after meals, because monosaccharides in fruits are easily absorbed by the small intestine. If they are blocked in the stomach, flatulence will easily form. Baby should not eat fruit before meals, because eating before meals will occupy a certain space in the stomach and affect the intake of nutrients for dinner.
The best time for a baby to eat fruit should be between meals or after waking up from a nap, so that the baby can eat fruit as a snack.
The way you eat fruit depends on your age.
Parents want their baby's chewing and swallowing ability to feed fruit. Generally, there are two ways for babies who have just added complementary food to eat fruit: one is to drink fresh fruit juice, which can be squeezed directly with a juicer or crushed with a grinding tool; The second is to scrape it into mud with a small spoon, preferably eating it to avoid oxidation, discoloration and pollution.
3. Fruit intake should be reasonable.
Parents must control the amount of fruit they give their babies, because eating too much fruit will cause trouble. For example, eating too many watermelons and bananas may cause diarrhea, and eating too many cherries, mangoes and lychees may get angry. Parents should pay attention to controlling the baby's consumption. It is suggested that the appropriate amount of fruit for the baby is 50- 100g each time, which can be adjusted according to the baby's age.
Brief parenting knowledge 4 1, don't eat too much cold drinks.
Cold drinks are children's favorite drinks in summer, but parents should limit their intake. Excessive intake of cold drinks by children will stimulate the stomach, cause strong contraction of gastric mucosa, greatly reduce the immune function of the stomach and cause gastrointestinal diseases. In addition, cold drinks can also affect children's tooth development, especially during tooth replacement.
Step 2 be careful with cooked food
There are many mosquitoes in summer, which are easy to breed bacteria. Be careful when giving the baby cooked food. It's best not to eat cooked food. Cooked food must be eaten after high temperature.
3. Avoid intestinal infectious diseases
Summer is the high incidence of intestinal infection. If you don't pay attention to food hygiene, it will easily lead to bacillary dysentery, colibacillosis and other diseases.
Step 4 avoid mosquito bites
In summer, many high-risk diseases are transmitted by mosquito bites, especially outdoors. Mosquitoes in the wild are poisonous. The child will be red and swollen and even have a fever after being bitten. Especially children who have not been vaccinated with Japanese encephalitis vaccine are more likely to spread after being bitten by mosquitoes.
5, prevent sunburn skin
The sun is strong in summer, and ultraviolet rays do great harm to children's skin. Pay attention to protect the baby from the sun, reduce the time out, and avoid the baby suffering from solar dermatitis.
6, scientific use of air conditioning
In summer, air-conditioning diseases will also focus on children. When sleeping at night, the air conditioning temperature should not be adjusted too low, and the temperature difference between indoor and outdoor should not exceed seven degrees.
7. Prevent heatstroke
The air is sultry in summer, so we should pay attention to indoor ventilation. Even in air-conditioned rooms, windows should be opened regularly for ventilation.
8. Pay attention to taking a nap
If the sunshine is too long in summer, there is relatively little sleep time at night. Attention should be paid to urging children to take a nap to ensure their vitality.
9. Avoid prickly heat
When children get itchy prickly heat, it will make them very uncomfortable. Wear sweat-absorbing and breathable clothes in summer, pay attention to dry sweat, change clothes frequently and avoid prickly heat.
10, eat more protein food.
Hot summer makes children's appetite worse. However, children who walk around consume a lot of energy. Attention should be paid to the intake of food rich in protein to ensure the needs of children's physical growth.
Brief the fifth chapter of parenting knowledge 1, and add some foods that prevent dryness and nourish yin.
Autumn and winter are suitable for nourishing yin. In autumn, you can give your baby some foods that prevent dryness and nourish yin, such as yam and lotus root. Yam can invigorate the spleen and lung, nourish the kidney and essence, moisten the five internal organs, and has a good nourishing effect, while lotus root has a nourishing effect of appetizing and strengthening the spleen.
2. Give your baby plenty of water.
When the air is crisp in autumn, the baby should drink more boiled water instead of drinks. If the baby rejects boiled water, you can try to drink some chrysanthemum tea, ebony soup, honeysuckle dew and so on. Usually give your baby seasonal fruits rich in water, such as watermelons, pears and oranges. Various vegetable soups are also an important means to replenish water. Clear soup can dilute the salt of dishes and keep the water balance in the baby's body.
3, eat less "fire" food
Eat less irritating food, which is easy to get angry, such as garlic, ginger, leek, pepper, pepper and so on. Eat less salty food, because too much salt can easily accelerate the loss of water in the body. Fried foods with high calories and some hot fruits, such as litchi, longan and oranges, should also be eaten as little as possible.
4. Take care of your baby's skin
Choose a soft towel when wiping or washing your baby's face, and don't scrub it hard. Children's skin care products containing natural moisturizing ingredients should be used after each cleaning. Babies' lips crack easily. You should apply a wet towel to your baby's lips to make them bloodshot, and then apply lip balm. The mucous membrane in the baby's nasal cavity is easy to dry, so you can wet the nasal cavity with a cotton swab dipped in normal saline.
Step 5 prevent diarrhea
Autumn is the peak of rotavirus diarrhea, also known as autumn diarrhea. Mother must keep the entrance closed, pay attention to food hygiene, don't eat cold food, and boil and disinfect toys and utensils regularly.
6. Vaccinate in time
Vaccinate in time to prevent infectious diseases with high incidence in winter and spring. Generally, at least one month after vaccination, infants will produce antibodies against infectious diseases.
7. Nutritional conditioning
Give your baby more high-protein diets such as milk, bean products, fish and meat. Add more whole grains such as corn, whole wheat bread, millet and black rice to prevent constipation in autumn. Foods rich in cellulose, such as spinach, radish, carrot, celery and cauliflower, should also be increased. In short, it is necessary to match the meat and vegetables, match the thickness, achieve a balanced diet, and reduce the incidence of autumn.
8, cold water exercise
It is advisable to scrub with cold water in autumn to improve the baby's adaptability to cold. Cold water scrubbing includes cold water washing hands, washing face, wiping body, showering and swimming. The cold water movement should be gradual, using water close to body temperature first, and then gradually lowering the water temperature. Dry with a dry towel after cleaning. Cold shower is suitable for children over 3 years old, and the action should be fast. Wipe with a dry towel after bathing until the skin is slightly red.
Brief parenting knowledge article 6 encourages children
This is very important for the children in the middle class, because they are still relatively dependent on the teacher, and it is easy to be afraid of difficulties and dare not try. Therefore, encouragement is particularly important at this time.
autonomous working
No matter how difficult it is, let children try first, and then praise them in time, so that children can fully establish their self-confidence. This not only cultivates children's good habit of hard work, but also cultivates children's good self-confidence.
Strong imitation
Children at this stage often have amazing imitation ability, which parents should not underestimate. Because this shows that children have a strong curiosity and thirst for knowledge, and will pay attention to the characteristics of the objects they imitate, which is also a manifestation of their own skills.
Give play to subjective initiative
Most parents think that children don't know anything, so they advocate for their children no matter what. In fact, this is not conducive to their growth. As parents, children should be properly released and allowed to make their own choices. This is also to avoid indecision in the future.
After beginning of spring, people smelled the breath of spring, the sunshine was warm and the wind softened, so many people were anxious to lose their heavy and cold clothes. The temperature difference between winter and spring is large, and the climate changes rapidly, but the children's physical adaptability is poor. It is better not to take off their warm clothes easily, which is more conducive to their health. However, when they are outdoors, it is necessary to add or reduce appropriate clothes for their children. It is best to decide how many clothes to wear the next day according to the weather forecast. Children are prone to sweat and catch a cold after exercise. Please take off your coat before the child exercises and put it on in real time after the exercise to prevent the child from catching cold after sweating. After the child sweats, put a quick-drying towel on the child's shoulder to help the child absorb sweat. Teachers and parents should often take their children to outdoor activities, receive sunlight and breathe fresh air, so that children can run and play in spring, a season with frequent infectious diseases, to enhance their physique.
First of all, the wonderful use of salt
Parents can think that children can brush their teeth with salt. Parents can also rinse their mouths with salt water to keep their mouths clean. They can also let children drink some salt water in the morning, which has the functions of cleaning the stomach, clearing away heat and detoxifying.
Second, the wonderful use of Jiang Shui
Jiang Shui can soak his feet, and when it is hot in Jiang Shui, he can also wipe his heart and chest with a towel for the children. This can enhance his cardiopulmonary function and improve his body's coping ability.
In spring, babies are prone to various respiratory infections and infectious diseases, and are prone to lack of vitamins C, B2 and other nutrients. The following vegetables have the functions of clearing away heat, relieving sore throat, removing blood stasis, relieving swelling, moistening intestines and relaxing bowels. Give your baby more food in spring to enhance your body's ability to prevent diseases and diseases;
1. rape. Rape, especially rape in early spring, is mild, rich in nutrients such as carotene, vitamin C, B2, calcium and iron, and has the effect of clearing away heat and toxic materials, and can prevent and treat diseases such as bickering, oral ulcer and gingival bleeding that are prone to occur in spring. Moreover, rape is delicious and delicious, and the cooked dishes are also loved by the baby.
2. shepherd's purse. Shepherd's purse shepherd's purse, especially wild shepherd's purse, is flat in nature, sweet and light in taste and has a unique fragrance. It contains more nutrients such as amino acids, fats, carotene and various minerals, and the content of vitamin C exceeds that of citrus. Make more shepherd's purse porridge for your baby in spring, or stir-fry eggs with shepherd's purse, stew dried tofu, or make shepherd's purse spring rolls and wonton.
3. spinach. In spring, spinach is tender, cool and smooth. It contains amino acids, fat, calcium, iron, vitamin C, B 1, B2 and carotene. Babies often eat spinach, which can not only prevent anemia, cheilitis, glossitis, oral ulcer and constipation, but also cover the skin and eyes. Remind me that after washing fresh spinach, it's best to blanch it with boiling water first.
4. Celery, fresh and tender celery, can be fried, stuffed, boiled and cold, and has the effects of clearing heat, relieving cough and relaxing bowels. Eating celery often in spring can enhance the baby's bone development and prevent children from brittle bone disease and constipation. Mashing celery, adding tea oil and applying it to subauricular gland can treat spring epidemic subauricular adenitis.
Short parenting knowledge 8 1, bacteria are easy to multiply in spring, and clothes are changed for children with the temperature.
Spring is the transitional season between winter and summer. Relatively speaking, the temperature difference will be relatively large. In this season, bacteria are easy to breed, and children's immune system is not perfect enough. Therefore, children will be particularly prone to illness, especially like some infectious respiratory diseases. Usually, we should add or subtract clothes for our children with the change of temperature.
2, prevent respiratory diseases, beware of hand, foot and mouth disease.
Spring is also a period of high incidence of respiratory diseases, so children's immune ability is not good enough, so they are more susceptible to infection, like some primary school students or kindergarten children, and spring is also a period of high incidence of hand, foot and mouth disease. The main targets of infection are these primary school students, so we must pay special attention, such as some infected towels, teacups, toys and so on.
3. Supplement calcium to prepare for growing up.
Spring is the season when children grow up quickly, especially when they are long, so it is necessary to ensure that children are provided with enough calcium in this season. Generally, children only need 700-800 mg a day in spring, which can be used for food supplement and medicine supplement. But for children, food supplement is the best way, like some bone soup, shrimp skin, kelp and so on. But remember, don't give children candy and chocolate often.
4. Supplement vitamin C to improve sensitivity and prevent dry bleeding.
In addition to supplementing calcium, children should also be supplemented with vitamin C. Vitamin C can improve the sensitivity of brain nerves, make people's responses more sensitive and flexible, and also improve children's immunity and disease resistance. Moreover, the wind is strong in spring, the weather is dry, and it is easy to bleed, and vitamin C has a good hemostatic effect, so it is advisable to give children more fresh fruits and vegetables rich in vitamin C.
5. Eat more coarse grains, miscellaneous grains and foods rich in natural sugar.
Children can eat more coarse grains and miscellaneous grains. These coarse grains and miscellaneous grains can not only replenish minerals for the body, but also promote digestion and make children's appetite better. In spring, they can also eat more foods rich in natural sugar. Because of the change of weather and climate, children's metabolic ability is gradually enhanced. Eating more natural sugar foods can provide energy for the body and refuse hunger.
Brief parenting knowledge 9 1. Cultivate children to develop good hygiene habits.
In spring, we should pay special attention to prevent children's diseases and influenza, cultivate children to develop good hygiene habits, wash their hands frequently at ordinary times, do not wipe their eyes indiscriminately, and do not spit everywhere. Parents or kindergarten teachers are advised to wash their faces and noses with cold and warm water in the morning and evening, which can not only enhance children's disease resistance, but also strengthen their nasal mucosa's adaptability to cold air and maintain indoor ventilation.
2. Exercise more in spring.
Spring is the season of high incidence of colds. In order to prevent colds and viruses, children should do more exercise and physical exercise in kindergarten, which can not only improve their resistance, but also make them feel happy.
3. Pay attention to nutrition intake
Pay special attention to children's nutrition in spring, and prepare some health nutrition recipes for children in spring to ensure the intake of nutrients such as protein and vitamin calcium. Remember, you should supervise your children after providing them with nutritious recipes, and it is best not to let them be picky eaters.
4. Take preventive measures in time.
Spring is a season with a suitable climate, and children are prone to sweating after outdoor activities. At this time, both parents and kindergarten teachers should pay special attention to wipe the sweat for their children in time to avoid their catching a cold, and in this season, they should also increase or decrease their clothes appropriately.