Children don't understand their parents and teachers, which not only affects their study, but also seriously affects their growth, and may even lead to going astray. Then, as parents, how to do a good job of "teaching by example" and let children understand their parents and teachers?
First, let children learn to put themselves in other's shoes.
Taking understanding as a bridge and establishing close teacher-student and parent-child relationship will have a positive effect on children, teachers and parents. As parents, children should be taught to put themselves in others' shoes.
Think from the teacher's point of view: As a student, you might as well think from the teacher's point of view. Every teacher wants his students to get good grades and have a bright future. Everything a teacher does is for the good of students, and there may be mistakes in methods when realizing this wish. Because teachers are human beings, teachers can't do everything right. They also have the joys and sorrows of ordinary people, their desires, their advantages and disadvantages, their right and wrong, their success and failure. "Nothing is perfect, no one is perfect." Teachers also have emotions and may make mistakes. Only by understanding the teacher, thinking more about each other's ideas and thinking more about each other can we get along more harmoniously and truly become friends.
Think from the perspective of parents: As a child, when you ask for "Long live understanding", have you ever thought that parents also need to understand, and understanding is always two-way? Yes, you want others to recognize and understand you, but parents also need to understand. The pressure of hard work and life no longer allows them to be as passionate as you. They used to be young, and they had more responsibilities. Have you ever understood your parents?
Second, take the initiative to care for and understand children and let them accept the care of their parents.
Everything has to go through the process of growth. After children enter middle school, their world of activities suddenly becomes wider, the knowledge they have learned has deepened, the scope of communication with teachers and classmates has expanded, and the information they have obtained has greatly increased. As a result, they stopped listening to their parents and began to have their own way of thinking and style of doing things, looking at people and things around them with their own eyes and trying to make their own independent opinions. Although these views are inevitably naive, they show that they are maturing. Therefore, parents don't have to worry about their children's performance, be happy and understand their children, which shows that their children are growing up.
Only by knowing your child first can you do a good job of "speaking" and let your child understand you. Move with emotion, understand with reason, and influence children with true feelings in study and life. Parents and teachers are genuinely concerned about their children. As parents, children can be persuaded to understand their parents with real examples in their study life.
However, when parents do these "word-of-mouth" jobs, they must keep a low profile and talk to their children sincerely and equally in order to play their due role.