Moreover, the number of knowledge points in junior high school has almost doubled compared with that in primary school. The English course alone has increased from 6 units in primary school to 9- 12 units in junior high school, and each unit in junior high school is divided into two parts, A and B. Therefore, it is particularly important for junior high school students to learn from asking me to enhance their sense of self-crisis and responsibility.
Personally, I think the most important thing for children to learn actively is that parents should set an example and accompany their children to learn.
Some people say that children should be allowed to be self-disciplined, but in fact, many parents will find that if you rely on your own self-discipline, the final result will be very disappointing. That's my friend. She has a younger child of her own, so she always lets her first-grade daughter study at home. However, after the first semester exam results came down, it was not ideal. Some parents play mahjong by themselves and put their children in training classes directly, which also leads to some children's psychological imbalance and refusal to study hard.
Therefore, the premise for children to study hard is that their parents can read and practice calligraphy at home, do something to improve themselves and set a good example for their children. At the same time, you can accompany your child to buy some extracurricular books, discuss with each other peacefully, and give reasonable suggestions in time. In this way, children's enthusiasm for learning will be improved a lot, and they can also develop better study habits. At the beginning of the first day, even if children are active in learning, they still need appropriate guidance and guidance.
Secondly, to give children a sense of crisis and responsibility, we must guide them to set a relatively ambitious goal. Like another friend of mine, she often tells children stories about celebrities reading books, and then shows them beautiful photos of universities at home and abroad. There is also a photo of her own classmate's child wearing a bachelor's hat after graduating from college. When you are free, you will also take your children to the nearest university town to experience the relevant atmosphere. Let children have great expectations for the university they want to go to, and then tell them what they need to enter this excellent university.
I remember when a reporter interviewed a college student in Tsinghua, the student said this. He said he was grateful to his mother for her guidance in junior high school. When his mother learned that his goal was Tsinghua, she didn't laugh at him, even though his grades were not very good. His mother took out a roll of toilet paper, drew the school gate of Tsinghua University at the end of the paper, and drew the name of junior high school at the beginning of the paper. Then ask him: is this distance far? He said: far! Then mom drew the distance closer and closer. His mother said that if you work harder every day, you will be closer to this goal. Then he began to study actively, moving forward one pace every day until he realized his dream.