Keywords: type 9 personality; 12 personality; Personality matrix; Core personality; Heart, brain and abdomen arrangement; Reconstruction of primitive personality; Personality disorder; The purpose and direction of the consultation; Self-cognitive transformation and self-realization.
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Psychology has been trying to solve a problem, that is, to find an effective personality typology to classify human nature, which is not only accurate and operable, but also can be used in daily life and easily understood by people. Philosophers have realized that personality always exists in one form or another since Hippocrates in the 5th century BC.
In the past few centuries, psychologists have put forward many different types of classification. Freud's research emphasizes the dominant position of ego, id and superego in personality; Jung's typology describes four types according to a person's psychological attitude-introversion or extroversion-and how it is influenced by four basic psychological functions-which Jung called emotion, thinking, feeling and intuition. Later, it developed into a famous MBTI personality-ability evaluation system, which was widely used in talent selection of modern human resource management. Karen Horner classified three personality types on the basis of her clinical observation of interpersonal dependence, which will affect the performance of interpersonal relationships between individuals and families, society and work in the future. ...
Each classification has been recognized and applied in different fields, and a large number of applied schools of personality psychology have also developed. However, Jane Luwenger's Self-development integrates the theory of developmental psychology, and puts forward that in the development of personality, it is necessary to emphasize the reconstruction of personality stability and the two changing processes of personality development over time-acquisition-integration.
With the development of age, we will see that one or two of the original personalities of the parties are over-strengthened, leading to the imbalance of personality and interpersonal relationship. Through an appropriate personal-centered approach? Self-integration therapy, in the process of helping clients rebuild their original behavior and external internal situation, achieves the dual effects of internal and external cognitive reconstruction, which can more effectively strengthen the persistence of their future beliefs and behaviors than simply changing their cognition.
If there is a complete and operable personality evaluation system to evaluate the clients' core personality values, world outlook and outlook on life, it will be easier for us to give correct guidance and help based on the clients' core personality values, reconstruct their cognition of the sources of anxiety in the world, society and transformation work, and thus change their behavior and emotional management, instead of just judging and projecting the counselors' own personality values or all unknown psychological black boxes.
Dodegram with 12 personality? Nine-type personality originated from nine-type personality, which is a supplement to the one-dimensional personality system and the multi-dimensional personality system of nine-type personality. Nine-type personality studies the thought, emotion and behavior pattern of individual single-core personality. The study of 12 personality is about the correlation between 12 personality matrix and the internal pattern of individual thought, emotion and behavior, and its influence on its internal value and external value in life and work. 12 personality explores the direction and way of self-realization through the reconstruction of individual personality and the integration of high personality, and brings transcendence. At the same time, 12 personality also studies the identity and law of mutual transformation and integration of personality dynamic changes; The influence of multidimensional personality growth and inner maturity on acquired personality in external social culture.
Type 9 personality originated from an ancient psychological system 2,500 years ago, and the study of its origin can refer to Type 9 personality (helen palmer). In the research of modern psychologists, type-9 personality is increasingly applied to the personality psychology of enterprise management and personal psychological growth. A large number of applied papers on human resource management, career planning and medical care often appear in papers and magazines of psychology and management. Nine-type personality believes that human personality can be divided into nine types, each person has only one main personality subject, and other personality parts serve as some supplementary behavior patterns. The position and transformation of each personality are shown in the above picture. The matrix of personality is essentially immutable. The following figure
Traditional nine-type personality matrix;
Brain 5-6-7;
Heart 2-3-4;
Abdominal 8-9-1;
In the process of evaluating and consulting a large number of traditional nine-type personalities, in the display of opposing binary personalities and in the study of the deeper dynamic transformation of the 3-6-9 ring, I found the derivability of the 3-6-9 word ring. So I added three prototype personality modules to the traditional nine-type personality to form it: -3, -6, -9 and +3, +6 and +9 together to form the six-pointed star structure of the variable-ring personality, and together with 1-4-2-8-5-7 fixed-ring personality to form the twelve-type personality evaluation system. As shown in the figure below:
12 personality focuses on the law of multidimensional personality matrix and its influence on individual values (brain), love (heart), world outlook (abdomen), life (innate) and work (acquired) personality patterns. Twelve-type personality holds that every independent individual must have twelve kinds of personality contents and patterns, and form a complete personality matrix in the form of strict multidimensional personality matrix according to strict and orderly logic and relations, which is what we call personality structure. At the same time, in the prototype that every personality is dynamic, we see the causes of personality disorder and the feasibility of personality integration and transcendence.
Human nature is an extremely precise, logical and orderly multidimensional structure, which represents its perfection and self-repair. Under the condition of finding the original personality structure of the individual, psychological counseling guides the deepest self-cognition and self-management of the subject through dialogue and intervention, and completes the process of self-personality integration through self-dialogue and self-analysis, which is also the end point of the study of twelve-type personality theory.
Multidimensional personality matrix analysis table as shown in the figure below:
Doctor? Rational matrix analysis
Abdominal area of core personality 1w(-9)
Congenital personality Acquired personality
Brain 7(+6)? 8(+3); Rational thinking mode
Heart 4(-3)? 5(+9); Perceptual emotion mode
Abdomen 1(-9), 2 (-6); Intuitive inspiration mode
The function of personality matrix is that it can more comprehensively interpret the basic components of attitudes and values caused by cognitive rational thinking, emotional emotions such as love and subconscious willpower. 12 The values of archetypal characters are opposite to each other and transform each other. Six modes of the German philosopher Sprenger. E's Types of People, together with several other idiosyncratic personalities in modern psychology, also coincides with the prototype personality of 12 personality. However, the value research scale is similar to twelve personality assessment scales.
? Values are the core belief system of individuals, and the standard for individuals to judge things and choose is their views on what is "worth". Compared with attitude, values are more abstract, more general, more stable, more lasting and less easy to change. All values are interrelated and form a complete value system. Similarly, various attitudes of personality will form an overall attitude system. The closer the value is to the center of the value system, the greater the resonance for individuals and the greater the influence on individual behavior. This is also the theoretical basis of counseling based on the original core personality values.
? In the case of marriage counseling, 80% of divorce factors are personality incompatibility, some of which are called "three views incompatibility", and the three views are to a great extent the values of money measured by our brains, our inner feelings and love, and our intuitive world outlook. These three centers can also be similar to Freud's ego (brain), superego (heart) and id (abdomen).
Twelve primitive personality prototypes and their corresponding values, flow state and main emotional changes under pressure;
Personality 1, perfectionist: pursuing perfection, paying attention to right and wrong, and being morally critical;
Values: only do what is morally right and correct.
Flow state: the sense of existence and satisfaction of all perfection and moral perfection;
Main emotions: anger, moral judgment;
The second character, giver: like to help others, be charitable, and control everything with love;
Values: helping others is the greatest happiness;
Flow state: unconditional love without borders;
Main emotions: fatigue and hysteria, instant reversal;
+3 personality, winner: pursuing success, result-oriented, straightforward, workaholic;
Values: pursuing excellent achievements and a sense of accomplishment;
Flow state: invincible sense of success;
Main emotions: conceit, excessive behavior;
No.4, tragic romance: pursuing emotional romance, ultimate meaning and spiritual connection;
Values: a deep understanding and link to the ultimate meaning, and people who know themselves;
Flow state: deep understanding and appreciation;
Main emotions: sadness, self-pity and self-blame;
No.5 personality, rationalism: very insightful, not good at expressing emotions, like to be alone;
Values: insight into the laws and relationships of everything in the external world;
Flow state: epiphany, omniscience, surpassing everything;
Main emotions:? Autistic, refusing to socialize; Hate contact with people;
+6 personality, dialectical person: like to compare and verify, logical thinking, quick thinking, evidence first;
Values: constantly changing and new attempts;
Flow state: a new state of experience and adventure;
Main emotions: selective anxiety syndrome;
No.7 character, hedonist: optimist, interest, passion, experience first, process-oriented;
Values: the world is for fun, and fun is meaningful;
Flow state: happy and carefree peak experience state; The pinnacle of bliss;
Main emotions: high-spirited, passionate and irresponsible;
No.8 personality, master: powerful, controlling, domineering, like everything under control;
Values: Holding power and controlling everything;
Flow state: everything is under control; Everything is ready;
Main emotions: antisocial personality, rage syndrome;
+9 personality, and commentator: let nature take its course, hate quarrels and conflicts, and deal with conflicts by escaping;
Values: The world is fair and everything will have the best arrangement;
Flow state: take your time, be calm, and time will make the best arrangement;
Main emotions: inaction, no motivation and no direction, only Nuo Nuo, self-anesthesia;
-3 Personality, politician: constantly changing roles, catering to groups and being good at inspiring others;
Values: image and appearance are very important, and teamwork is very important, which should be shared;
Flow state:? Enter the role and become the protagonist;
Main emotions: self-deception, narcissism syndrome;
-6 personality, skeptic: negative thinking, crisis thinking, loyal to the core values of the belief team;
Values: safety first, loyalty is necessary;
Flow state: investment in the cause and organization;
Main emotions: doubt, anxiety, self-denial; Victimization delusion and hypochondriasis;
-9 Personality, conspiracy theorist: prudence, king of process, rigorous thinking, king of strategy;
Values: everything has its reasons and laws, especially human factors;
Flow state: finding the rigorous beauty of law in perfect logic theory
Main emotions: obsessive-compulsive disorder, repetition, nagging and entanglement syndrome;
Each individual has developed a personality matrix integration with a personality prototype as the core and corresponding values, and has 12 personality components at the same time. 12 personality is called personality. When personality is located in different positions of heart, brain and abdomen, it forms individual uniqueness: brain-values, heart-love and abdomen-outlook on life. Subjective personality determinism is called "the principle of oneness". The principle of monism contains two philosophical components: 1. The main character is the only, unchangeable and absolutely unchangeable principal component in the personality matrix; 2. All personality components are the same, including the basic personality component of 12, which is also called the principle of identity.
Simply put, after the main personality components of an individual are established, they are lifelong. Other personality components can be used as the supplement and development of personality integration, but the main personality is relatively unchanged. This ensures the stability and identity of personality development.
On the other hand, each individual also has different personality components and modules in 12 dimension. With the development and study of the day after tomorrow, it finally integrates into all dimensions. However, under the condition of multi-dimensional and multi-dimensional development, due to the different matrices and the different weights and dimensions of personality development, individuals cannot be completely unified. This also creates the diversity and pluralism of human nature. In the direction of personality integration, we will not only have the advantages of the original core personality, but also master the excellent intuition and instinct of other personalities, which is called personality maturity. On the other hand, when personality development is unbalanced or unbalanced, it is most common that the original three-dimensional subject character is suppressed for various reasons, and the individual lives in a false self, leading to long-term dissatisfaction and self-unrealizability. 12 personality is called personality imbalance. Similarly, over-strengthening the original personality will also cause symptoms of personality imbalance.
The test of personality matrix can get the most accurate model to explain a person's thinking mode, emotional mode and behavior mode in different situations through questionnaires, self-cognition and matrix final adjustment. This has played a cutting-in and leading-in role in the individual-centered negotiation process.
Case study 1
Application of Twelve Personality in Students' Career Planning
Case background: Help-seeker, female, 17 years old, sophomore, puppy love, mother seeking advice.
I interviewed my guardian first:
Mother: "We used to quarrel at home, and then we divorced eight years ago. After the divorce, the daughter followed her father. Father has a bad temper and often scolds his daughter. /kloc-When she was 0/2 years old, her father scolded her for playing with her mobile phone and didn't accept her mobile phone. She suddenly jumped out of the window of her room (the eighth floor) and was taken to the hospital. Fortunately, she was fine. Later, because of this, my ex-husband and I remarried, and her mood gradually stabilized. But when something goes wrong, she will threaten, "Do you want me to die? "Since entering adolescence, the school teacher found her puppy love with the social youth outside and often took her out to drink and sing. Let her go home, and she began to threaten us again, saying, "I'll show you when I go home ..."
Counselor: Puppy love in high school is not desirable. Schools and families should jointly manage her behavior. Purpose of this consultation: What purpose and effect do you want to achieve as a guardian?
Mother: I just want her to finish high school and graduate from college and establish a correct outlook on life.
Counselor: Finish school, manage puppy love in school and establish a correct outlook on life. This is the purpose of consultation.
My interview with my daughter:
Counselor: The purpose of this interview is to find the career direction you are interested in through personality test. Would you like to talk about your study at school?
Daughter: I majored in food nutrition technology in high school. Although I like eating very much, this major will become a nutrition consultant in the future. Teachers have no place to attend classes, and basically sleep as soon as they attend classes.
Consultant: Did you have a favorite major before?
Daughter: Yes, I want to be a fashion designer. Moreover, the painting teacher said that I am very talented in painting;
Counselor: Can you talk about your excessive behavior as a child?
Daughter: What behavior? I only remember that my parents often quarreled. I am often scared when I am alone in the corner, and I often cry alone. But then they made up. I knew my mother cared about me and wanted me to study hard and find a good job.
Consultant: Can you tell me something about your boyfriend?
Daughter: Yes, he is three years older than me and has a job outside. Be good to me and come to school with me often. I'm sick. Take me to the doctor. Spent a lot of money.
Consultant: He 19 years old and you 17 years old. He works, and you must go to college. Can you arrange it?
Daughter: Anyway, my major now is arranged by my mother. Sleep in class every day and have plenty of time.
Consultant: If you were asked to choose a fashion designer in the university, would you still choose a designer?
Daughter: It's a little late now. Art majors need painting skills, but it's much more interesting than this major now.
Counselor: Would you like to spend more time in painting cram school to register as a designer?
Daughter: Yes.
Counselor: Then you should give up a lot of spare time to go to cram school, and you can't come out to accompany your boyfriend every day. Would you like to?
Daughter: Yes, I can earn more money than him after reading the design.
The evaluation results of daughter's core personality matrix are as follows:
The second personality in the protagonist's mind;
Sanyuan's subjective personality matrix is as follows
Brain fourth area: Sad and romantic;
Heart region 2 donor;
Abdominal 8-zone power controller;
The protagonist in the brain area (rational area) is the No.4 sad romantic school, so he has a strong interest in art and likes romantic feelings; Like literature and art majors;
Is the personality of the heart area (perceptual area) 2? Number one: the giver. This is the protagonist area, helping others get the return of love; Like the feeling of being loved, it is easy to control others with love; It is also the reason for puppy love;
Abdominal area is (instinctive area) No.8 personality: boss, master; I like to control my life and pursue power, but I don't like being pushed around.
The core personality matrix evaluation results of the mother guardian are as follows:
Perfectionist 65438 +0 is in the ventral area of the protagonist.
Sanyuan's subjective personality matrix is as follows
No.7 hedonist in brain region;
No.4 sad and romantic in the heart area;
Abdominal area 1 perfectionist;
According to the connection mode of three personalities in the traditional nine-personality fixed ring, as shown in the following figure.
Daughter protagonist No.2 becomes the role of No.8 master under pressure, which will lead to excessive violence, but in a happy and relaxed state, it will become a sad and romantic role No.4, which will induce puppy love and sad behavior. At the same time, personality No.4 is very interested in art study. Strengthening personality No.4' s self-realization in the brain region will not make her feel dull in science and engineering (food technology management). If the values in the three centers can make her develop smoothly, she won't be addicted to the giver's puppy love state in heart area 2 because the other two centers can't realize themselves; It is also more conducive to managing the cognitive and behavioral changes of her puppy love.
The guardian mother's personality is a typical abdominal perfectionist. Before taking the exam, she was not fully aware that she often subconsciously criticized her daughter's behavior, attitude and concept. Often use a kind of "only? One? Way "cognitive way to do career guidance for her daughter, because she is a nutritionist and a sales director in a beauty and plastic surgery company. On her career path, she has arranged a "perfect" job search path, so she ordered her daughter to strictly implement it. When the character of the daughter's belly is aroused, there are potential radical words and behaviors.
When the guardian knew his personality, he suddenly recalled what her husband once said: "You always think you are right and everything is perfect." In the one-on-one conversation with the guardian for rational emotional therapy, it is pointed out that the cognitive way of 1 is: "When 1 understands that there are no perfect solutions to all the problems in the world, 1 will live in greater inclusive wisdom ..."
Adopt the steps of rational emotional cognitive therapy to gradually guide the cognitive process of the guardian's mother, and understand that the biggest problem in parent-child relationship is the personality difference and value conflict with her daughter. Chinese paternalistic education is based on parents' values, which is a kind of compulsory indoctrination for children and will produce excessive rebellious behavior and results for a traumatized daughter. Only when children's self-worth is realized at three levels: values (brain), love/affection (heart) and outlook on life (abdomen) is the most rational guiding state in career planning.
Because this is guided by the value orientation of the original characters and must conform to human nature. Each personality has different abilities and talents. Correct guidance, giving the right external stimuli, and making the ability grow into talents are also the expected results that every parent or human resource division is most eager to see.
Through external encouragement and acquired cultivation, the original character can grow in a suitable soil and external environment. Suppressing the original orientation and interest orientation of the original personality will only get the opposite effect. After evaluating their own personality, counselors can effectively guide them according to the starting point brought by the original personality, so that individuals can find deep-seated core values in the process of self-cognition and self-reconstruction, which is also an effective method of self-exploration.
Case study 2
On the contrary, 12 personality counseling in marriage relationship with values.
Male matrix: brain 7 heart 4 abdomen 1,
The core figure is the perfectionist of abdominal area 1;
Female matrix: brain 1 heart 5 abdomen 7,
The core figure is hedonist number seven in the belly;
The matching degree of male and female personality matrix is quite high, 60% of the values match, but the personality in the heart area, mainly the concept of love, is completely opposite: 4? VS 5. Personality No.4 is a sentimental romantic, and Personality No.5 is an observer of rationalism. Before fully understanding each other's personality matrix, two people often quarrel over small things in life. For example, No.4 likes to show his love in front of everyone, No.5 doesn't like to expose his private life and emotions on social media, and doesn't like to show his intimate relationship in public. Frequent quarrels stem from the differences in values between the core of personality and the center of emotion. Only by mutual recognition and understanding can we reach a consensus.
Counseling method: let two people learn the theory of twelve-type personality at the same time, and at the same time, through sharing the inherent mode of learning each other's emotions (heart personality), on the basis of cognition, jump out of the original moral judgment and get along with each other to achieve the purpose of counseling.
Conclusion:
Twelve-dimensional personality matrix studies the multiple personality structure system embodied by values in personality structure. Compared with the traditional psychological personality system, its advantage lies in that it is easy to find the content and orientation of the original personality through self-awareness, and then through personality reconstruction and self-cognition, it can improve the wrong cognition caused by emotion at the core personality level and return to the healthy cognitive level. Improve the personality imbalance caused by personality disorder.
Through self-dialogue, we can adjust the psychological problems caused by the conflict between internal value and external value. People-oriented core personality counseling is an effective supplement to modern psychological counseling.
In 20 12 years, Harvard psychology in the United States studied the reasons why 56 perfectionists' personality families were anxious about their children, which showed that the study of the original personality prototype was consistent with the study of 12 personality. The book "Pleasing Obstacles" also describes counseling cases related to the second personality giver. As more and more primitive personality prototypes are recognized by modern psychology, personality psychoanalysis and 12 complex personality will play an increasingly important role in self-exploration and personality development in consulting cases. ?
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