1. Parents must of course find ways to overcome them one by one. Of course, the time for children to keep their concentration will increase with their age, so we should treat children of different ages in different ways, so as to get twice the result with half the effort. For example, children's learning should be game-driven, stimulate interest and increase concentration time.
In cultivating children's interests, parents should not only carefully select toys, but also pay attention to their needs and development. If toys are beyond children's ability or too simple, they will not be interested, let alone cultivate their attention.
3. The best way to divert children's attention from the game and concentrate on learning is to attach importance to and participate in children's learning, so that children can feel that as long as they concentrate on completing a job or homework, there will be affirmation and encouragement. For example, if you can persist in completing a certain task, you will be rewarded with a small red flower. If a child has a "task" or an expected "goal" in mind, he will restrain himself. When children are willing to do it, their attention will naturally shift. After a long time, children can cultivate a focused learning attitude.
When children are studying, parents should try to avoid the interference of environmental factors and distract their attention. If the study room can't be too fancy, parents will watch TV, listen to music and talk to guests too loudly, which will distract their children. Therefore, try to create a quiet environment for children. Hunger, overeating and fatigue are also the most common reasons for children's inattention. To ensure that children have enough sleep, they should not be allowed to watch TV endlessly.
Usually, play more games with your children that require attention. For example, look at the picture to find the missing parts (scissors have only one blade, rabbits have only one long ear, cars have one wheel missing, and so on). ), four people sit in a circle and grab three chairs, "three guesses one" or "four guesses one" (first put three toys or four toys on the table, let him look for a minute, then blindfold one, open your eyes and let him see which one is missing). In addition, children can often practice some sports activities, such as patting the ball, walking the balance beam, skateboarding and so on. If the child can skillfully walk on the balance beam or skateboard, he can be trained to catch the ball thrown at him while playing, thus training his action and concentration ability.
Extended correlation:
Laziness can be considered as inattention, or inattention in doing something, which leads to lazy behavior of children. Lazy behavior can be divided into the following categories:
Physiological factors: poor health or fatigue, such as rhinitis and asthma caused by children's colds or allergies. Lack of exercise, children's contact with green space is too little, parents hold their children in their arms for a long time, so that children lack the activities needed for growth, such as raising their heads and rolling the ground. All these will lead to poor sensory integration system, such as insufficient coordination among children's hands, eyes, brain, mouth and ears, or slow development or immaturity of a single system, which will make children slow to respond, prone to mistakes and inattention.
Psychological factors: If you are not interested and don't want to do it, if the learning content or what you do is difficult, the child won't do it at all. In addition, if there is a lack of peers, lack of encouragement and praise will also affect their enthusiasm. Unintentional excessive attention, such as a large number of advertising words on TV and in society, is catchy and forcibly stimulates people's unintentional attention, and children are easy to accept these stimuli. Being in this aimless, chaotic and unintentional attention for a long time has hindered the development of intentional attention, so that after entering school age, I still can't concentrate on the class. Even in junior high school, the level of attention development only reaches the level of the second and third grades of primary school. Therefore, children should have a certain time limit when watching TV, and choose programs suitable for children. I have something on my mind, or I have something on my mind, and I can't distract myself.
Environmental factors: there is too much noise around, such as too many people coming in and out, guests at home, too loud TV, or noisy near home.