It is very important to be rude to children, and moderate rude education is very important. Because blindly doting on children is not all conducive to their growth. Even if the family situation is very good, we can give them some material security, but after all, we should let the children look at this social development and cope with their daily life.

Desperate education guides the baby's consciousness. When children are young, they are all commodities at home. At present, the total number of children in the family is very small, with two children at most. Of course, a large part of children are held in their hands, but they are afraid to throw them in their mouths. However, because he is so powerful, the child will grow up sooner or later. Therefore, when you are young, you need to exercise your consciousness, easily solve your own theme activities, and tidy up your clothes and pants. Make your own bed, solve the environmental sanitation of the bedroom, and then help your parents do something when they grow up, such as buying fruit, such as cleaning up the housework. This should be exercised.

Despair education guides children's ability to work in adversity and resist stress. After all, children's growth is unlikely to be smooth. Even if parents have a certain ability to work, they can't always accompany their children. For example, most children need to choose boarding after entering ordinary high schools. If it is not easy to board them, it is obviously a great setback in daily life. If you want to study well, the first prerequisite is to be self-reliant and take care of yourself. This is the most important, especially after school. It is very likely that parents who are hundreds of kilometers away from home can't take care of them, so they have to rely entirely on themselves. It was the same at work later. Therefore, children should personally experience the hardships, feel the level of compressive strength, and slowly cultivate the working ability of compressive strength.

A child will not develop easily if he doesn't experience some setbacks. If his development has been smooth sailing, even if he is excellent, there will be problems sooner or later in the future. Since he has not been badly hit, how can he judge what it is like to fail? People must work hard and be frustrated in this life, and the results are not good. Naturally, everyone firmly believes that most people can succeed through hard work, and the probability of success is very high. However, not everyone can succeed through hard work because there are many people who work hard.