One representative, called a helicopter, did not give up his children and study, and made strict arrangements for them. I hope that children will always give plans and carry them out, which will lead to children's excessive dependence on their parents and various serious problems of not being independent and not being able to adapt to society smoothly. They also proved their vulnerability, their vulnerability, their wealth, and their helicopter parents had the wrong way.
The second parent is the so-called running-in Their education, no matter what, can completely set children free and let them be unconstrained, saying that such children will be stronger when they come out. But it turns out that these parents are wrong. Under such family education, more children will be abused. Because, in their educational life, no one has given them enough care and encouragement, so although they have experienced sports and become strong, their inner world can't stand it.
However, the third kind of family education is relaxed parents. They learn the correct letters for their children. When children need freedom, let them be the biggest letter, and when children are about to face danger, they will be bound in time, so as to prevent them from making mistakes in the future and let them grow up healthily. This kind of education has cultivated the best children in the middle of the helicopter and in the palm of your hand, and their children have a better future.
In children's family education, there are always various problems, especially the constraints on children. Parents always have some questions, saying that it is open education, but it needs to be open. What are the possibilities? In fact, it is easy to understand that we should let go of all kinds of education for children. For example, it is also an important habit and rule not to pose. In the process of children's growth, it is a habit and law that can be cultivated. At this time, parents need to learn to restrain their children, because restraint is sometimes the biggest letter to their children. It's like giving children a safe circle and telling them what to do. It's impossible anywhere. There is a premise to give children the greatest freedom, that is, to help them establish and lay down rules.