How to guide children's sexual consciousness is ignorant, just like a blank sheet of paper. Generally, when children are three or four years old, parents need to consciously improve their children's understanding of both sexes and see how to guide their sexual awareness.
How to guide sexually conscious children 1 1? Parents should establish a correct concept and never lead their children astray. Some of them may still be rebellious, curious about their genitals or peeking at their parents' sex life, which makes their children mysterious about sex and prone to criminal psychology when they grow up.
In life, let children gradually realize the various parts of the body and their functions, and communicate with them more. If children live with their parents, parents can't be particularly affectionate and have sex in front of them, otherwise the children will think wildly and affect their psychological development.
2, the child's thirst for knowledge is very strong, and all the doubts of the child should be answered correctly. When children see things they don't understand, they always ask questions and are curious about sex. Some babies will ask where it came from. As parents, we must treat our children's problems correctly and give real answers according to our own understanding. This is the best time to educate children about sex. Don't ignore or cajole them.
3. Parents should help children identify sexual roles and tell them the difference between men and women at the beginning of sex education. Parents can usually talk about sex with some trivial things in their lives, without deliberately arranging them. For example, when children are young, parents can use the time to take a bath together to naturally give their children sex education and how to clean their private parts.
If parents' sexual knowledge is not sufficient, they must be fully prepared, accumulate more knowledge in this field, read more relevant books or check information online.
4. Parents can buy some books suitable for children to understand, or find some videos of children's sex education on the Internet, so that children can understand inadvertently, and they should also tell their children more about physical hygiene, which can increase their awareness. Parents' attitude is very important, so choose clothes that match the child's gender. If you wear the opposite clothes, it will blur your understanding of gender and make children have sexual orientation problems when they grow up.
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When you give your child sex, you must have a correct attitude and not be too serious. When children are curious about the opposite sex or their reproductive organs, it is the best time for sex education to avoid making particularly intimate moves in front of children.
How to guide a child with sexual awareness 2 The baby has no sexual awareness, and parents need to give the child correct guidance. When children are three or four years old, parents should not change clothes, especially underwear, in front of their children. Parents need to tell their children the difference between boys and girls in time, so that children can learn how to distinguish between men and women, which can effectively prevent children from being ignorant.
Parents should teach their children how to protect their genitals, and always remind them, for example, no one is allowed to touch them, and no foreign objects are allowed to touch them. From an early age, children should be instilled with the awareness that men and women are different. For example, some characteristics of men and women can tell children that men have Adam's apple and women have breasts.
In addition to teaching their children by themselves, parents can also show their children some cartoons about children's sex education, which can help them learn some sexual knowledge. When educating children, parents should be more subtle and don't give them too many explanations. This is because the children are still too young, and parents only need to say a few words.
How to guide children to establish correct sexual consciousness
When children are three or four years old, parents should be careful not to change clothes, especially underwear, in front of their sons or daughters. Children are curious.
Parents should tell their children the difference between boys and girls in time, so that children can distinguish the main characteristics of men and women and avoid their ignorance.
For boys and girls, they should learn to protect their genitals and remind them, including no contact with anyone, no contact with foreign objects and so on.
Parents should instill in their children the consciousness of differences between men and women from an early age, such as some characteristics differences between men and women, such as Adam's apple of men and breasts of women.
In addition to teaching children by themselves, children can also watch more cartoons about children's sex education, which can make them understand intuitively.
When educating children, parents should be more subtle and don't explain some problems to their children too much. After all, the child is too young, just say a few words.
How to guide children to have sexual awareness at the age of 3?
When the child reaches the age of 3-4, he gradually begins to have sexual consciousness. Since this period, children have gradually realized some sexual things, and at this time they have become curious about some things. Not only that, during this period, children's learning ability and thinking ability are gradually strengthened, so parents need to actively guide and teach them to cultivate their healthy and correct sexual awareness.
The expression of children's sexual consciousness
1. When you kiss or hug the opposite sex, you will feel shy.
When children are shy about kissing or hugging the opposite sex, it actually means that they begin to think that there are different meanings behind this behavior, which is a manifestation of their awakening of sexual consciousness. They will think that this kind of behavior is only done by the opposite sex who both like each other.
Therefore, children have this phenomenon because their children have grown up, so parents should not be too flustered and worried. At the same time, when you are close to your child, you can choose to kiss your child's forehead, cheeks and small hands instead of kissing to express your love for your child.
2, will ask adults some embarrassing questions.
When children's sexual awareness awakens, they will ask adults some embarrassing questions. For example: Why am I different from my brother? Why dad and mom are different, and so on.
Sometimes parents are helpless. But as parents, they should answer questions according to their age, and they can explain them to their children concisely with the help of books. But it doesn't need to be too detailed, and it can't be shirked at will. The most important thing is to let your child know that you are willing to answer his questions.
3. Be curious about yourself or your adult body.
Accompanied by the emergence of secondary sexual characteristics. Children are inevitably curious about themselves or adults' bodies. After all, men and women are different, which is also a manifestation of children's awakening of sexual consciousness. For this phenomenon, parents should calmly and patiently explain their children's curiosity to avoid causing their children to think.
In addition, the awakening of children's sexual consciousness is accompanied by curiosity, and questions will increase. Parents should not be impatient with their children's questions, prevaricate, prevaricate and cheat, so as to discourage their children from asking questions. In contrast, children can be shown some sex education cartoons, and parents can help answer their questions.
How to Establish Children's Correct Sexual Consciousness
1. Teach children the nouns of different parts of the body.
Try to teach children the correct names of body parts, such as penis and vulva. This will help you communicate with your child more accurately and conveniently. The correct names of body parts will also help you explain to your child what sexual assault is. Children can also tell you clearly whether there has been sexual assault.
2. Take the initiative to deal with children's questions
Sometimes parents feel that their children never ask questions. In fact, sometimes you don't have to wait for your child to ask questions before you start talking. Parents can use the events around them or in society to discuss with their children. Explain to your child what you think about some problems, the preventive measures you should take to avoid some problems, and the solutions you should take after the incident.
3. Answer your child's questions honestly.
Sometimes I don't know how to answer children's questions, or I don't know at all. It doesn't matter. Admit to your child that you don't know. A good way is to check the information with your child and find the answer. Through this matter, we can also set an example for children to be honest and solve problems.
4. The example is very powerful.
Parents should pay attention to the nonverbal information their children get from adults. For example, mutual respect, loyalty, sharing housework, respecting the old and loving the young, helping others, being polite, being serious and responsible for work, being honest and trustworthy, etc. Will be passed on to their children through their parents' behavior.
5. Give children full respect.
Let's discuss three important factors that will affect how your children deal with the sexual problems of teenagers and future adults. These three factors are: self-esteem, privacy and how to make a decision. These are all factors that have a certain influence on children. You can't treat children casually. Children will learn from their parents' practices, and your practices will affect their future lifestyle.