Text/Li Xianfeng

Reading notes in 2022

Reading notes are aimed at the following three starting points:

First, the ideas in the book, enhance their own educational ideas;

Second, it is worth learning from the book to improve their educational skills;

Third, the beautiful sentences in the book, aiming at the philosophical sentences, enhance the language charm and educational and cultural level of their articles.

Notes by Xu Li, the author of Pedagogy of Children's Books;

2. The story knows what to do.

-What should I do if the child doesn't stop becoming an adult?

29. That laughter was restrained not only for fear of interrupting the story, but also because of natural and pure childlike innocence. What is slowly flowing in the whole classroom is the warmth and tenderness of the story. After the story is finished, I can always hear the sigh of family planning satisfaction, followed by half silence. Then I can continue to lecture or arrange to do exercises, just to continue the breathing rhythm when telling stories. That kind of comfortable feeling will make children concentrate more on classroom activities.

30. It is amazing that I have told so many truths, but it is not as enlightening as a story. Susan perrow, a senior Australian kindergarten teacher and "story doctor", said, "The mystery and power of stories are often overlooked. They subtly affect all aspects of your mind and self, and become a part of you while changing you. " She calls this the healing function of the story, that is, healing-reaching balance and becoming sound and complete.

3 1. Therefore, I am willing to try again and again "stories touch children's world in a positive or affirmative way" and "hint at healthy and positive solutions" to them again and again by telling stories, so as to affirm children's efforts and changes that have happened to them in a more positive way.

32. In this world, there really exists an education without blame and humiliation, and storytelling is one of them. Stories light up children and nourish their hearts. As long as you believe, you can constantly witness the healing function of the story-to help the growing children reach a new balance and let them have a kind and warm heart.

? It must be the adults who have the final say.

-Kids always want more. What should I do?

33. Persuasion exercise is extremely valuable and a rare opportunity for the comprehensive and coordinated development of emotion, emotion and cognition. Children learn rational thinking and rational expression in the process of reasoning, which may initially come from imitation and the beneficial guidance of adults, and will eventually be internalized into their own skills and constantly improved in contact.

What adults need to do is to calmly ask "what do you want to do with him" and "what will you do", so that children can know the responsibilities and consequences they need to bear in the dialogue, and even be glad to see that after being told "no", they still strive for it calmly and clearly in various ways.

35. Adults can honestly tell their children their worries and dissatisfaction when they feel entangled, and then listen to how the children respond, negotiate with the children in communication and clarify the rules. Even if you refuse, you won't belittle the child, so that the child has the strength to calmly accept the disappointment after being rejected.

36. Sasaki Tadashi May, a famous Japanese psychotherapist, even thinks that for young children, the principle of early education is to meet their requirements as much as possible, and the wishes of young children cannot be met too much.