In addition to netizens' hatred of high-altitude parabolic objects, it also triggered a heated discussion about "Xiong Haizi". In fact, in the face of "Xiong Haizi", parents should correct their children's wrong behavior in time and don't become "bear parents". Whether it causes serious consequences or not, it is the unshirkable responsibility of parents to cultivate their children's good behavior habits and improve their quality.
In fact, there are many examples of "Xiong Haizi" in life. Some parents can respond in time to correct their children's wrong behavior, but some parents indulge and spoil their children blindly, and even encourage their children's behavior to some extent. For example, when eating in a restaurant, many Xiong Haizi will run around the restaurant, which will not only disturb other guests' meals, but more importantly, people will come and go in the restaurant, dishes will continue to be delivered and services will continue to be provided.
It can be seen that Xiong Haizi's bad behavior may not only affect others, but also hurt himself. Other children are usually brought up by grandparents, and sometimes it is inevitable that they will be more pampered and spoiled. Many times, grandparents are responsive to their children's needs, even if they are unreasonable, they all accept them.
For another example, a five-year-old child rides his grandfather like a horse and whips him from time to time. The parents of the children on the side not only didn't stop him, but also laughed happily. And I believe that as bystanders, most of us may not be able to stand such a scene. Grandparents are old. It's time for parents to educate their children to care and take care of the elderly. Why do they want their children to "dominate the king" and treat the elderly as a toy that can be used at will, which does not reflect the traditional virtue of respecting the elderly?
In fact, when we say "Xiong Haizi", we don't mean that children can't be naughty. After all, fun and curiosity are children's nature. They still have too many unknowns and desire to explore the world. However, as parents, we must set a behavioral boundary for our children. A basic principle should be followed: don't disturb or hurt others, and of course don't cause potential hidden dangers to children's own safety.
In fact, when we criticize "Xiong Haizi", we also expect to give children a more positive guidance, so that they can distinguish right from wrong and distinguish between good and bad. In this educational journey, parents undoubtedly play an extremely important role. Many "Xiong Haizi" were born because parents, especially parents, lacked education. Many "Xiong Haizi" have a "bear parent" hidden behind them. Just like the child who treats grandpa like a horse and even whips him, maybe if the parents on the side can stand up and stop the child in time, we won't see such a sad picture.
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