Hello, parents should intervene in conflicts between children, but after all, conflicts only happen when children are not sensible. If parents don't help their children solve the problem, the children's handling methods will be incorrect. Parents should help their children to deal with conflicts between children in the right way, instead of doing things that should not be done impulsively to scare them. His solution is incorrect. Educating children should be disciplined by both parents, not intimidating children. If there is a conflict with the child, the child is not sensible and it is easy to have conflicts. If children are at school, they can communicate with teachers and parents to solve the conflicts between children together. Only in a reasonable way can the meaning of education be achieved, and children will change in the future and unite with their classmates. So, when there is a conflict between children, should parents intervene?

1, find out what happened and why.

Before parents get involved in conflicts between children, they should understand the causes and process of conflicts, so as to better handle conflicts for children, resolve conflicts and better clarify who is right and who is wrong. Therefore, parents should listen to the explanations of the two children fairly when they meet children who have disputes, and then consider whether they need to intervene in the children's conflicts. If necessary, they need to help children solve conflicts from an objective perspective.

2. Be clear about whether you should get involved.

If the conflicts between children are just ordinary fights, shoving and screaming, then parents can let the children solve them themselves, which will not only enable the children to exercise their communication skills, but also help them grow up better.

When parents educate their children, they should clearly tell them that they are not afraid of things. If you encounter other children bullying yourself at will, you should also boldly resist and can't stand being bullied by the other side.

If you can't resist, you can ask your parents for help and ask them to help you find other parents to deal with things. This can not only cultivate children's strong character, but also help children grow better.

Don't take sides.

When solving conflicts between children, parents should know not to take sides, let children explain the process of contradictions from their own perspective, and then parents should deal with the problem from a fair and just perspective.

If the child is at fault, parents should promptly guide the child to apologize;

If the other child is at fault, then parents should seek justice for the child, set an example for the child, and deter the other person from bullying others at will.

4. Guide children to roll with the punches, and roll with the punches.

After parents intervene in their children's conflicts and resolve them, they should also guide their children to roll with the punches and have a heart to forgive others.

If we blindly take the dispute between us to heart, it will easily become a chicken rib, which is not conducive to the friendship between the two, nor to the shaping of children's three views.

abstract

In the face of children's conflict, whether parents should intervene depends on whether the situation of children's conflict is big or small and whether it is necessary to intervene.

After intervening in the conflict, we should not take sides, but should handle and solve the problem fairly, so that the children of both sides can understand the right and wrong of the matter and help them better solve contradictions and conflicts. Therefore, when there is a contradiction between your child and your child, you should combine the right and wrong things with the efforts of your child's teacher to change your child, let the child solve the contradiction in the right way and change the good way of getting along, so that the children will not have contradictions and conflicts together.