Say that the family is poor
It is always said that it is not easy for parents to make money. Your child will feel guilty if you talk too much.
It should be said, baby, money can be spent, but it can't be squandered!
The second sentence
Don't get into trouble
If you talk too much, children will lose their ability to protect themselves, and they will be bullied and dare not resist.
Should say
Baby, no one has the right to bully you. Don't make trouble. You are not afraid of things. Resist! Resist!
Third sentence
"I don't consider his feelings for your own good. If I don't give him the right to choose, I will become indecisive in the future.
Should say
Baby mother loves you very much, and you can listen or not if you are afraid of detours. Your life is up to you, but you have to bear the consequences!