1, indicating empathy with children. Empathy is a term in psychology, which is used to express emotional communication and understanding between peers, between teachers and students, and between parents and children. In the phenomenon of children hitting people, when adults stop hitting people, the usual practice will be to criticize and educate children so that they can understand that "hitting people is wrong." In fact, this often does not have a good result. It is more appropriate for adults to divide beating events into beating events themselves and beating emotions. Dealing with the emotion of hitting children is the first step. The beating of children is often a sign of anger. When a child is angry, he thinks he has enough reason to hit someone. Therefore, parents should first express their understanding of their children's emotions before giving them reasonable education. At this time, adults should communicate with their children euphemistically, such as "xx, aren't you happy?" Mom saw it, too. Wait. Seek children's emotional empathy.

2. Guide children to fully express. After expressing empathy with children, what adults need to do is to guide children to fully and completely express their reasons for hitting people and their emotions at that time. In this process, when adults express their feelings to their children, they should show concentration and patience, listen to the child's expression of the whole incident, and give a positive response with eyes, expressions and nods. When children express the whole incident and emotional feelings in words, adults will find that children are no longer as angry as when they hit people, because children's negative emotions are effectively vented in the process of expression.

3. Discuss methods with children. Let children learn how to deal with similar contradictions and bad emotions in the future, which is an important goal to overcome the phenomenon of children hitting people. For example, at this time, adults can analyze with their children, "What should you do if you encounter something that just robbed toys in the future?" "If there is a conflict with your child again, can you discuss it together or find a parent or teacher to solve the problem?" Let children explore ways to solve problems in analyzing this incident and improve their ability to deal with problems.

4. Effectively monitor and implement actions. After adults and children reach a consensus on the incident, they need to implement it in future practice. Therefore, adults should supervise with their children and often analyze and deal with problems with the consensus reached. If they persist for a long time, the phenomenon of children hitting people will naturally disappear, and instead, they will express their demands with reasonable language and behavior.