Good family education is very helpful to the healthy growth of children;

First, the principle of equality.

Psychological research has proved that the equal debate between children and parents is not only a manifestation of mutual love, but also helps children build confidence, distinguish right from wrong, and enrich their imagination and creativity. The influence of "dictatorship" on children's character is disastrous. Many parents feel that children should listen to themselves and obey their own efforts to earn money and raise their children. This concept should be changed, and children should be treated as equals.

Second, respect principles.

Only when we respect our children can our children respect us. Some parents just want their children to do what they say, but they can't have their own opinions or defend themselves, otherwise they will reprimand their children loudly. This kind of child is likely to parrot when he grows up and has no opinion.

Third, the principle of emotional communication.

Many parents mistakenly think, "You have books to read, food to eat and clothes to wear. What else do you want? " But human growth needs not only material things, but also spiritual and emotional needs. Parents ignore children's spiritual and emotional needs, and children and parents have nothing to say. In the long run, it will become more and more embarrassing for children to get along with their parents.

Fourth, the principle of freedom.

Many parents are very strict in the management of their children, but they are often thankless and even cause tragedy. We should believe in children's ability and give them a space for free development.

Fifth, the principle of unification.

Family education should be unified with the school, otherwise the children will be at a loss. In addition, the educational concepts among family members should be consistent, otherwise the children don't know who to listen to, and no one will listen.

Sixth, the principle of example.

Parents are the first objects that children imitate. Parents must set an example and don't plant bad seeds in their children's young minds.

Seventh, the trust principle.

Lies come from distrust. If you trust your child from an early age, there is no need for him/her to lie.

Eighth, the principle of tolerance

To err is human. Children will naturally make mistakes when they grow up. Parents should be tolerant, and there is no need to "swear at small mistakes and serve at big mistakes."

Ninth, the principle of encouragement.

Many parents have a bad habit. When their children get good grades, they will say, "Did they peek?" When the child's grades are poor, he said, "You have been so poor." Although it was a casual sentence, it greatly hurt the child's heart. Children should be encouraged more in family life.

Tenth, the principle of method transformation.

With the growth of children's age, educational methods should be constantly changed.

In short, no matter what method you take to educate your children, as long as your children feel that their life is happy, cheerful, healthy and optimistic, and they are full of love, confidence and hope for the future, then you are a successful parent.

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