What should a 4-year-old child do if he fights with his parents? How do smart parents usually educate their children? Changing the way of educating children, the main reason why 4-year-old children fight with their parents may be that parents beat their children, and children fight back with their parents out of self-protection, which leads to parents fighting with their children. Therefore, the key to getting out of the predicament is that parents generally don't educate their children by scolding.

4-year-old children have good language logic and language expression skills, and parents can certainly reason with their children. As long as parents communicate with their children in a language that they can understand, by putting facts and reasoning, children can understand the feelings that parents need to express and communicate with their parents until they fully accept what their parents say and actively correct their mistakes.

If parents often educate their children by scolding them, they will not only be unable to correct their mistakes, but also have a strong resistance. Fighting with parents is a way for children to express their resistance. Once a child has a bad habit of hitting people, it is likely to produce violent behavior, which will have a very bad impact on the healthy development trend of children.

The main reason for correcting children's habits and forming a fight between 4-year-old children and their parents may be that children like to hit people, and parents fight with their children in order to discourage their personal behavior of hitting people. Therefore, the key to get out of trouble is that parents should correct their children's habit formation instead of fighting.

First of all, parents should explain to their children the main reasons why they can't hit people with their hands. Because hitting people with their hands will hurt others and may hurt themselves, hitting people with their hands can't solve the difficulties at all, and attracting others in combat effectiveness can't make others full of praise.

Secondly, parents should correctly guide their children to express their views through language exchange, and parents should listen carefully to their children's speeches. As long as children can express their own truth and make sense, parents need to accept their children's ideas.

Thirdly, parents should take temporary isolation to punish their children for beating people. If children hit people and don't listen to their parents, parents need to let them think in a quiet corner, calm down and guide education.