Psychological characteristics:

1, learning frustration leads to fear of difficulties.

When entering junior high school, the courses are increased, the books are thicker and the homework is bigger. All subjects have higher requirements for pretending to congratulate. Freshness will soon be replaced by "schoolwork burden", dazzling and even hectic. Sweep away the carefree happiness of the past, and get a little more depressed and anxious.

2. The contradiction between the sense of adulthood and the sense of childishness.

The outstanding psychological feature of teenagers is that they feel that they have grown up and become adults. Therefore, in some behavioral activities, thinking understanding, social interaction and other aspects, it shows the demeanor of adults. Psychologically, I long for others to treat him as an adult, respect him and understand him.

3. Upward and blind unity.

Self-awareness began to develop, and with certain evaluation ability, I began to pay attention to the pros and cons to shape my image, hoping to get praise from teachers and classmates, and I will work hard in learning and discipline, and strive to leave a good impression on teachers and classmates. However, the independence and criticism of thinking are still in the primary stage, and they are blindly complacent when they are smooth sailing, blindly inferior and discouraged when they encounter setbacks, and have herd mentality.

Educational methods:

1, don't care too much about grades.

In junior high school, parents should not only pay attention to their grades, but also pay attention to their children's hearts and encourage them from the side, which is better than verbal pressure. In junior high school, parents should first affirm and recognize their children's efforts, and don't care too much about the results, so as to encourage their children to have a healthy attitude to face the future.

2. Set an example and pay attention to words and deeds.

If parents want their children to accept their own education, they must improve their self-cultivation, learn to be parents and be strict with themselves, so as to educate their children well. At the same time, we should also actively supplement our own shortcomings, establish a tall image in children's hearts, and let parents establish prestige in children's hearts.

Matters needing attention in educating children:

Environmental edification. Parents should consciously create a good living environment for their children to be infected and edified. Family is the main place for children's life. Parents should organize themselves to pretend to be happy, handle the relationship between members well, adhere to the correct moral behavior as the criterion, form a United and harmonious family atmosphere, establish a well-organized life order, and cultivate children's beautiful sentiments.

Arrangements to guide the order of life. A good life order is an effective way to cultivate children's good habits. Guide children to arrange their daily lives, arrange their living environment, and teach them to study and use their time in an orderly way. Let the children make their own arrangements, and parents can give directions.