First, Song Jiang's identity is there. Another person is absolutely not qualified to give Brother Wu such a big lesson. Even a father who gives his son such a big lesson will disgust his son. Because, this kind of large class, everyone has long heard that their ears are almost cocoon. Are these two sentences bothering you every day?
We can imagine that if someone tells Wu Ge this truth, Wu Ge will only think that he is farting. Because, when Wu wore open-backed pants, someone (of course, big brother) told him this truth every day. The question is, what's the use of really stepping into society?
Take the simplest example, Brother Wu's own eldest brother, who has completely integrated this theory into his life. What's the effect? The effect is obvious, because anyone who sees Song Wu's own brother can't help but want to bully him.
Song's own brother Wu felt a new way of life. Although he is always in trouble, at least no one dares to bully him!
Wu Da put it this way: "When I complained about you, when you were in Qinghe County, you drank whatever you wanted, fought with others, and often went to court. You taught me to be an official if I wanted to, but I didn't do it for a month, and you often taught me to suffer. This is your complaint. " When I miss you, I recently had a little son. People in Qinghe county are not timid, they bully each other and nobody cares. Who dares to fart when you are at home? I can't settle there now, so I have to move here to rent a house, so I miss you. "
Therefore, others will tell Song Wu this life lesson, and Song Wu will never listen. Because, his own eldest brother, this lifestyle, has dissolved into the blood, and his eldest brother himself, dare not say that his lifestyle is better than his second brother.
However, the legendary eldest brother had another effect when he told him this life lesson. The key point is that the legendary eldest brother did not simply tell him this truth, but used his words and deeds to influence Song Wu subtly. Because, on the surface, the legendary eldest brother is completely mixed with society according to this principle.
Second, when Song Wu used this brand-new strategy of playing cards, Song Jiang always took the lead behind him. Therefore, when Song Wu practiced this way of treating people, he was naturally stimulated. In other words, no matter how he tries this lifestyle, he will be recognized by the outside world. Because, with the legendary big brother around, others will respond positively immediately when they see that Song Wu suddenly becomes polite.
If there is no Song Jiang behind, Song Wu's initial study will certainly not be strengthened all the time (it is inevitable that he will be ridiculed, and if he meets someone who is not on the road, he may even harass Song Wu along the pole). Once the bad energy and muddy energy that Song Wu has cultivated for many years get a weakened response (such as respecting others, but without results or achieving the opposite effect), he immediately shows his fierce face again, so the study is over. Because Song Wu will continue to do things according to the old style.
Brother Wu's previous style was that you were more ruthless than me; You are evil, and I am worse than you. If something happens, I feel very comfortable today. What will happen tomorrow? For example, Zhang Dujian dared to harm Song Wu, and Song Wu was hacked to death immediately, killing people like chopping vegetables. As for the consequences of doing so, he is too lazy to think about it.
Before playing, Song Wu didn't do anything too bad. However, compared with this, it is also the difference between 50 steps and 100 steps. In short, if you dare to offend me verbally, I will wave my fist at you; You dare to punch me, I'll knock you to the ground. Such a person, let him kiss his brother and accompany him to the county government for three days; No one wants to talk to such people in Upper Chai Jin Village. Naturally, there is nothing strange.
But after meeting Song Jiang, Song Jiang will obviously tell him that this method is wrong and naive; However, after meeting Song Jiang, Song Jiang will make Song Wu fully aware of his mistakes in subtle ways. Therefore, it is not surprising that Song Wu's early illness stopped after meeting Song Jiang.
More importantly, Song Wu would be at a loss without the repeated encouragement of the legendary eldest brother, and he would be even more at a loss if he treated people with completely opposite strategies. And his idol, the legendary big brother, carefully guides him and actively encourages him, so he can naturally walk away from the first few steps slowly. Once he gets used to it, the later study will naturally be simple.
The formation of Song Wu's character, to a great extent, is because in the real society, the law of the jungle exists, so the violent side of Song Wu has been strengthened, so its inferiority and ruthlessness have become more and more obvious. What is it to get drunk and beat people up after living in someone else's house for free for a year? I have an amazing artistic career, but I can't make my own brother feel really safe. On the contrary, I just got into trouble for my own brother. What's this called?
Song Wu's own brother lives by this principle (persuading others, respecting others, understanding others and caring for others) in society, but he can only look at others' faces everywhere, making people feel bullied. Song Wu will naturally think, intentionally or unintentionally, that this way of life is definitely not desirable.
However, when I met the legendary eldest brother, everything was different. The legendary eldest brother depends not only on words, but also on examples. Because on the surface, that's how Big Brother behaved, and he was very successful. Therefore, Song Wu will naturally learn and become more and more enthusiastic. So since Song Jiang appeared, Song Wu has completely changed.
Third, Song Wu's bad energy and muddy energy are enough. More importantly, Song Wu's own strength is more sufficient. Therefore, it is very convenient for Song Wu to deal with the world in this way.
In fact, this is more important than the first two points.
Because as I said before, If a person wants to learn the way of humility, he must make people believe that you are so humble only because you have extraordinary manners and self-restraint; Otherwise, if you are modest, people will only think you are weak and incompetent.
Liu Bei can show his humility to the fullest, because his leaders are two incomparable younger brothers. Therefore, no one dares to despise the humble person. Because being able to lead two younger brothers like that can only be described as unfathomable.
Great leaders can show their humility to the fullest, because people's status is there. Therefore, no one dares to despise the humble person.
Jianghu brothers can show their humility incisively and vividly, usually because others are vicious and vicious, and no one dares to doubt it at all; Therefore, no one dares to despise the humble person.
People like Wu Da can't be wrong if they follow this principle. The problem is that it will never win the respect of others for Wu Da, because people think it is the result of Wu Da's weakness. It can even be said that Song Wu's initial character was formed because he saw his eldest brother (or someone similar to this) and believed in this way of life, but he was looked down upon and bullied by others, so he cultivated the opposite character.
Song Jiang casually dials, and Song Wu can be thoroughly remoulded. That's because Song Wu has accumulated enough low-key capital.
Facing people like Song Wu. Sung river will naturally find that after simple processing, this is a kind of material that can be manufactured. Because Song Wu is smart enough, alert enough, vicious enough, and has an amazing art industry, he is also eager to become a hero, and his foundation is good (because his eldest brother sets an example every day. In other words, Song Wu learned the most from childhood.
Song Jiang set-up Song Wu, on the surface is very simple. In fact, that's because Song Jiang has extraordinary strength and skill. Even if ordinary people understand this truth, when they meet people like Song Wu, they can never educate Song Wu.
Of course, your AE is not always so active and kind in educating people. Because, big brother himself is not a good man.
It's much easier for big brother to teach people to be bad. In a word, just like a father who can't get along with his son. More specifically, I am also responsible for solving your troubles; How bad and evil you are, I always love and care about you.
If the eldest brother reported this idea to train the younger brother, the eldest brother would never tell the younger brother a little truth. The big brother reported this idea to train the younger brother, which will only make the younger brother understand a truth, that is, as long as you are loyal to the big brother, you can always bully. Lack of money, big brother will give it to you; Lack of contacts, big brother does not lack this kind of thing; What are you afraid of? Big Brother can handle anything.
In short, as long as you are loyal to your eldest brother, you can do whatever you want; You don't have to give anyone's face except eldest brother; You can mess with anyone you want except Big Brother. If something goes wrong, big brother will take care of it for you.
Eldest brother reported this idea to cultivate a person who was originally a simpleton and later turned into a pile of walking dead. In a sense, this little brother doesn't know how to live without the protection of his big brother. In other words, the little brother's soul has been taken away by the big brother.
Because, with the protection of big brother, wherever you go, you can live as you please. Without big brother to protect him, everyone knows that he must have no future at all.
Li Kui jy is your AE, the victim of this educational idea.
When we see that Li Kui jy is willing to commit suicide with Sung River, we always feel very strange. The question is, if there is no Song Jiang, will Li Kui jy still have such scenery alive in the future?
Let's read the original.
Li Kui jy also cried and said, "Come on, come on! When I was born, I waited on my brother. When I died, I was just a kid under my brother. " I cried when I said it.
In fact, Li Kui jy became the shadow of Song Jiang shortly after he knew him. In a sense, Song Jiang attached his overbearing and evil spirits to Li Kui jy.
For Song Jiang, he never lacked domineering and evil spirits. It is this domineering and evil spirit that makes everyone afraid to approach him. So Song Jiang began to weaken his domineering and evil spirits with incredible pedantry and cowardice; Later, with Li Kui jy, Song Jiang's domineering and evil spirits were mostly attached to Li Kui jy, so Li Kui jy was reborn.
Before meeting Song Jiang, Li Kui jy didn't seem to have done anything too evil, too cruel and too big. Before meeting Song Jiang, Li Kui jy did the worst and most malicious thing, and the biggest disaster was that he killed someone and ran away.
However, being framed by Song is a bad thing, because the whole thing is possessed by evil spirits. In short, I dare to rush in any disaster and do anything sensational (holding two axes, chopping people is like chopping vegetables; What common people, what officers and soldiers, what good people and bad people; All cuts are correct); Why? Because there is a big brother in the back. The point is, big brother can always protect him.
Of course, this is another story, and we just talk about it briefly here.
Eldest brother's skill is that he is best at teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. In a word, eldest brother often just inadvertently dials, which will make people have incredible changes.